What To Do Right After You’re Caught: The Moves That Help and The Moves That Hurt

Getting caught cheating turns your world upside down in about four seconds flat. What you do in the hours and days that follow will either lay the first stones of

by Doug

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My Letter to the Other Woman After the Emotional Affair

Looking back, I wish I would have written my letter to the other woman... Photo by Olly2 By Linda When I found out about Doug’s emotional affair, it hurt in a way I didn’t

by Linda

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Is The Cheating Spouse Living With Regret?

I wonder how many marriages end because of infidelity with the cheating spouse living with regret about their decisions. I wonder that once they make that decision, how difficult it is

by Linda

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Dealing With the Shame and Embarrassment After Infidelity

Dr. Bob Huizenga on the shame and embarrassment after infidelity.

by Doug

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Using “I” Statements for Conflict Resolution

What Are "I" Statements and Why Are They Important for Conflict Resolution?

by Linda and Doug

Is the Cheater Staying Because They Want To

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Is Your Wayward Spouse Staying Because They Want to or Because of an Ulterior Motive?

Is the cheater staying because they want to or for some other reason?

by Sarah P.

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Affair Recovery – Moving On After Infidelity

There's a lot of books about moving on after infidelity, but most are for those who want to stay together. What if that’s not the case?

by Linda and Doug

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Betrayed Spouses: Is Being Alone the Answer to Avoiding Pain?

Do people only care about themselves? Is being alone the answer to avoiding pain?

by Sarah P.

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Universal Behaviors of Wayward Spouses that Sabotage a Marriage After an Affair

Here are a few of the many universal behaviors by wayward spouses that sabotage a marriage after an affair is discovered.

by Sarah P.

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Why Save the Marriage? Why Not Just Be with the Other Person?

Often the betrayed spouse asks the question, "If my husband/wife loves the other person, then why save the marriage? Why don't they just leave and go be with the affair partner?

by Linda and Doug

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