DARVO After Infidelity: When the Cheater Turns You Into the Problem

DARVO after infidelity is one of the most disorienting things a betrayed spouse can experience. Here's how to recognize when your partner has flipped the script, how it differs from gaslighting, and what the unfaithful partner needs to understand before real recovery can begin.

by Doug

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When Your Spouse Leaves for Someone Much Younger: The Shame Nobody Talks About

When a spouse leaves for someone decades younger, the shame can feel like yours to carry. It isn't. We take an honest look at the unique pain of an affair with a large age difference and what it actually takes to start moving forward.

by Linda and Doug

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My ‘Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda’ List

Here are some things I wish I would have done differently when recovering from an affair.

by Linda

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Affair Recovery and the 7 Stages of Grief After an Affair

In this wonderful article, our member Duane shares his take on what to expect throughout affair recovery. His insights relate to the 7 Stages of Grief after an affair and

by Linda and Doug

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The Affair With a First Love

An affair with a first love often blurs fantasy with reality, rekindling old emotions without considering how much both people have changed.

by Doug

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My Views Have Evolved on Confronting the Other Woman

Confronting the other woman may seem empowering, but it often leads to more pain. Instead, focus on healing and rebuilding your life with dignity.

by Sarah P.

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Should You Confront the Other Person?

One of the many questions that face the victim of an extramarital affair is whether or not to confront the other person.

by Linda and Doug

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The Pain of Betrayal – Do We Have Adequate Words to Describe What it Feels Like?

When it comes to describing the actual pain of betrayal, words often fail us. The pain of being betrayed is a visceral experience and your body feels it and experiences it.

by Sarah P.

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Why the Unfaithful Person’s Angry Outbursts are Sometimes Just Bull$#!+

Sometimes the unfaithful person's angry outbursts are nothing but bullshit. They are often attempting to shut you up and deflect the conversation away... By Doug Navigating the Rocky Road of Affair Recovery Tell

by Doug

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Is The Cheating Spouse Living With Regret?

I wonder how many marriages end because of infidelity with the cheating spouse living with regret about their decisions. I wonder that once they make that decision, how difficult it is

by Linda

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