What to Say When a Wayward Spouse Blames You for the Affair
Tips on how to respond when a wayward spouse blames you for the affair.
Sarah P.
Dealing with Infidelity
When the Affair Partners Work Together
There is a special dilemma that exists when the affair partners work together.
Doug
Unfaithful People Are Adept at Compartmentalizing the Affair
Those engaging in extramarital affairs are often skilled in compartmentalizing the affair, allowing them to keep up the lie for years.
GuestPoster
False Reconciliation – Perhaps More Devastating than D-day
False Reconciliation - A situation that can be even more devastating than the initial affair discovery.
Linda and Doug
Why Triggers Are So Hard and Why They Should Never be Minimized
Even though I am 17 years out from D-Day, I still suffer from post affair triggers and when they come, they are powerful.
Sarah P.
Facing the Reality That the Affair Happened
After discovering your partner’s affair, typically the first issue is simply dealing with the physical and emotional reactions and then facing the reality that the affair happened.
Linda and Doug
Surviving the Holidays after Infidelity
A resource-filled article on surviving the holidays after infidelity.
By Linda & Doug
We think it's safe to say that the holidays can be one of the most difficult times of the
Linda and Doug
Narcissistic Personality Disorder + Sexual Affair + Low Accountability = Unsalvageable Marriage
Marriages can survive affairs. However, when the cheater has narcissistic personality disorder it is doubtful that a marriage can be saved.
by Sarah P.
There are many cases where marriages can survive
Sarah P.
How Do Affairs Begin? They Always Begin With the Little Things
I'm often asked, "How do affairs begin?" Well, they almost always begin with the little things - and usually in the workplace.
Sarah P.
Denial After the Affair ‘D-Day’
What denial after the affair looks like - from the perspective of the betrayed.
by Sarah P.
We are all familiar with the grief that occurs after we suffer a loss or
Sarah P.