The Pain of Betrayal – Do We Have Adequate Words to Describe What it Feels Like?

When it comes to describing the actual pain of betrayal, words often fail us. The pain of being betrayed is a visceral experience and your body feels it and experiences it.

by Sarah P.

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Why the Unfaithful Person’s Angry Outbursts are Sometimes Just Bull$#!+

Sometimes the unfaithful person's angry outbursts are nothing but bullshit. They are often attempting to shut you up and deflect the conversation away... By Doug Navigating the Rocky Road of Affair Recovery Tell

by Doug

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Is The Cheating Spouse Living With Regret?

I wonder how many marriages end because of infidelity with the cheating spouse living with regret about their decisions. I wonder that once they make that decision, how difficult it is

by Linda

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The Role of Therapy for Betrayed Spouses in Healing After Infidelity

Therapy for betrayed spouses stands out as a vital source of support, leading the way in emotional recovery and self-development.

by Doug

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What to Say When a Wayward Spouse Blames You for the Affair

Tips on how to respond when a wayward spouse blames you for the affair.

by Sarah P.

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When the Affair Partners Work Together

There is a special dilemma that exists when the affair partners work together.

by Doug

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Unfaithful People Are Adept at Compartmentalizing the Affair

Those engaging in extramarital affairs are often skilled in compartmentalizing the affair, allowing them to keep up the lie for years.

by GuestPoster

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False Reconciliation – Perhaps More Devastating than D-day

False Reconciliation - A situation that can be even more devastating than the initial affair discovery.

by Linda and Doug

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Why Triggers Are So Hard and Why They Should Never be Minimized

Even though I am 17 years out from D-Day, I still suffer from post affair triggers and when they come, they are powerful.

by Sarah P.

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Facing the Reality That the Affair Happened

After discovering your partner’s affair, typically the first issue is simply dealing with the physical and emotional reactions and then facing the reality that the affair happened.

by Linda and Doug

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