Boundaries After Betrayal – Everything You Need to Know

Boundaries after betrayal are meant to keep the hurt spouse safe. They are to establish what's OK- and what's not OK.

Financial Infidelity in a Marriage: To Spill the Beans or Not? – You Decide

We’re considering an issue that is quite common - financial infidelity in a marriage - and whether or not a person who knows about it should spill the beans.

by Sarah P.

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Q&A With An Unfaithful Wife

A couple of years ago we did an interviews with an unfaithful wife, Sara. It will give you an idea of the mindset of unfaithful women and men.

by Linda and Doug

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Getting Over an Affair – Doing Work

In order to get over an affair, it truly takes two individuals working together - yet separately - to reach a place of forgiveness and healing.

by Linda

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Why Triggers Are So Hard and Why They Should Never be Minimized

Even though I am 17 years out from D-Day, I still suffer from post affair triggers and when they come, they are powerful.

by Sarah P.

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After Infidelity the Only Thing That is For Certain is Uncertainty

If uncertainty after infidelity is an issue for you right now, you need a game plan for effectively coping so that you can better handle it and ...

by Linda and Doug

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He Said, She Said: When the Wayward Spouse Plays the Victim Role

You, as a betrayed spouse, must shut down conversations where a cheater plays the victim card or rationalize away their actions.

by Sarah P.

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How Infidelity Affects the Eight Areas that Lead to Successful Relationships

Infidelity affects all eight areas of successful relationships and steals in the night all that was sacred. Infidelity infects, infiltrates, and slowly poisons that thing we called love for each other.

by Sarah P.

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Cheaters Can Be Masters at Emotional Manipulation

Let’s dive into this whole emotional manipulation topic a bit more and hopefully it can help some of you realize what’s going on in your relationships.

by Doug

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Q&A with Psychotherapist David Feder

Doug talks with Psychotherapist David Feder, MSW, RSW, CSAT, EMDR to get his take on several member submitted questions - from both betrayed and unfaithful individuals.

by Doug

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