By “Rose” Lately I have been journaling a lot; suggested by my therapist, it really helps to get the emotions out. Sometimes I’ll write my spouse a nasty-gram but then don’t send it because the action of writing it helps me a lot. What I have been thinking about lately is the labels we assign […]
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When Bigfoot, the Loch Ness Monster, and the Other Person Are All Best Friends in their Non-Existence
By Sarah P. While the title of this post seems comical at first, this is a title that is quite literal since it hints at gaslighting. I wanted to revisit the topic of gaslighting and how wayward spouses use it. It is essential to understand it and recognize it to preserve your equilibrium as a […]
Why the Pick-Me Dance Does Not Work
Copyright Jim Davis. Jim Davis, if you are reading, I spent many an evening at Fox Fire’s and spent lots of money there just to save my sanity from the hell that is that particular town. I also did you the courtesy of not bothering you at your house (located on you know what lake) […]
Tales of Several Relationships and More Reasons Why You Cannot Make Your Spouse Cheat
By Sarah P. My husband reads the New York Times every night before bed. Sometimes he will find a particular obnoxious article OR a particularly moving article and forward them to me. I read two different accounts in the Modern Love section, one very moving article about the SELFLESSNESS of people with integrity and another […]
Understanding Gaslighting: A Brand of Jedi Mind Tricks
This article will help you in understanding gaslighting more, as well as how to recognize and respond to it. If your wayward spouse is making you doubt your own sanity, there is a 99% chance he or she is gaslighting you. By Sarah P. While I have written about gaslighting before, I recently had an […]
4 Lessons Learned from 2+ Years of Hell
By “Jack” Several months back we had a mentoring client, “Jack,” who was betrayed by his wife. Recently he sent us an email expressing his desire to write a post sharing some of his experiences and lessons learned after infidelity. Please read on… I am very sorry you are reading this. You are undoubtedly going […]
The Most Horrific Sentence in the English Language: I Love You, But I Am Not in Love with You.
“I love you, but I am not in love with you” is a catchall phrase that does not force people to look deeper or to find the real problem. By Sarah P. Step right up folks and take a look: here before you sits the famous House of Horrors. It does not matter the time […]
Summary of the 2017 Reader Survey
We’re sure you’re just chomping at the bit to see the results of our most recent annual survey! OK, well maybe not so much. But the results had a few surprises when compared to last year’s survey. First of all, we wish to thank everyone who took time out of their busy day to […]
Playing the Double Fool: Mistaking Enabling and Codependence for Lovingkindness
By Sarah P. I do not know what it is about the past couple of months that has turned many normally grounded people into huge fools. But, I have seen it everywhere. I have seen well-meaning betrayed spouses/partners responding in the most inappropriate ways to wayward spouses/partners. It seems that a wayward spouses egregious behavior […]
Translating Affair Speak – Who Are You and What Have You Done With My Spouse?
By Sarah P. Have you ever noticed that your wayward spouse says some of the most off-the-wall things sometimes? Never in a million years would you have expected some things to come out of the mouth of your dearest and beloved husband or wife. Yet, there you are, standing in disbelief, while your husband/wife is […]
Discover the 10 Most Important Lessons about Surviving Infidelity
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Infidelity Guides
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It’s Tough To Stop an Emotional Affair
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When the Other Woman Becomes the Wife
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The Runaway Spouse Syndrome
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Real Reasons the Emotional Affair Happened
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Staying After Cheating: Is It the Right Thing to Do?
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How Does A Betrayed Spouse Heal from Cheating?
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Open House Discussion
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Does the Other Woman Play A Role In an Affair or Does the Blame Land Solely on the Cheating Husbands? YOU Decide
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How to Make Your Spouse Cheat on You
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Too Afraid to Rock the Boat – You Decide!
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Four Strikes and He Was Out: The Doctor of Psychology Who Did not Understand Monogamy or Psychology
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Another Neighborhood Marriage Bites the Dust
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Mile High Affair Club: The Affair Story on a Plane
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EA or PA? The Labels We Assign to Affairs – Are They Really Important?
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A Tribute to All of the Wonderful Women and Men Who Walk Alongside Us
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Affair Discovery – Like Getting Hit By a Truck
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Discover the 10 Most Important Lessons about Surviving Infidelity
This short guide tells you what you need to know to survive the affair, heal yourself and emerge on the other side a stronger person.
