Why Triggers Are So Hard and Why They Should Never be Minimized

Even though I am 17 years out from D-Day, I still suffer from post affair triggers and when they come, they are powerful.

by Sarah P.

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Facing the Reality That the Affair Happened

After discovering your partner’s affair, typically the first issue is simply dealing with the physical and emotional reactions and then facing the reality that the affair happened.

by Linda and Doug

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Surviving the Holidays after Infidelity

A resource-filled article on surviving the holidays after infidelity. By Linda & Doug We think it's safe to say that the holidays can be one of the most difficult times of the

by Linda and Doug

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Narcissistic Personality Disorder + Sexual Affair + Low Accountability = Unsalvageable Marriage

Marriages can survive affairs. However, when the cheater has narcissistic personality disorder it is doubtful that a marriage can be saved. by Sarah P. There are many cases where marriages can survive

by Sarah P.

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How Do Affairs Begin? They Always Begin With the Little Things

I'm often asked, "How do affairs begin?" Well, they almost always begin with the little things - and usually in the workplace.

by Sarah P.

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Denial After the Affair ‘D-Day’

What denial after the affair looks like - from the perspective of the betrayed. by Sarah P. We are all familiar with the grief that occurs after we suffer a loss or

by Sarah P.

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Trauma Related to Being Betrayed Multiple Times

The worst case scenario is the trauma related to being cheated on multiple times by your spouse during the duration of your marriage.

by Sarah P.

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Cheating in a Relationship – Should the Other Person Be Confronted?

Should the affair partner be confronted after there was cheating in a relationship?

by GuestPoster

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Anger after Infidelity – 8 Strategies for Dealing with an Angry Partner

Anger after infidelity is an extremely common thing. If you are able to deal skillfully with an angry partner, your relationship may transform dramatically.

by Linda and Doug

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All About Work Affairs: If You Feel a Cringe When Your Spouse’s Colleague is Around, Take Note

It’s no secret that over 80% of unfaithful people meet their affair partners at work. This "work affairs" phenomenon is well-known.

by Sarah P.

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