Lee Baucom PhD: The Common Theme That Fuels Infidelity is F.A.L.S.E.

Lee Baucom Ph.D. believes there is a common theme of what fuels infidelity. It’s an easy to remember acronym: F.A.L.S.E.

by Doug

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The Aftermath of an Affair – How Dealing With This Means Dealing With That

In the immediate aftermath of an affair, you have one, big, soul-crushing and perhaps relationship-ruining betrayal to work through. By ‘TryingToGetOver’ Dragging the truth out of your loved one, then healing your

by GuestPoster

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Looking for the One Foot Out the Door: Musings on Abandonment

One of the things that betrayed spouses face on a daily basis are feelings of abandonment. Sometimes these feelings are barely lurking in the background as fleeting shadows as you

by Sarah P.

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Playing the Double Fool: Mistaking Enabling and Codependence for Lovingkindness

This post identifies the behaviors that you believe might bring a spouse back, how many of those behaviors are based in enabling and codependence...

by Sarah P.

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Spouse Poachers: When it’s open season on your husband, you need to have a plan

When you are dealing with a spouse poacher, she thinks any season is a good season to poach another woman’s husband.By Sarah P.You have been through it and you know

by Sarah P.

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Time For Real Talk – The leverage you have when your husband won’t leave the other woman

by Sarah P. Note: This is the first installment of a two-part series where Sarah P. will address the leverage one has when their spouse won't leave their affair partner. This week

by Sarah P.

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The Most Powerful Technique to Save Your Marriage

There's hardly a day that goes by that we don't receive an email from a betrayed spouse who isn't frustrated, angry, beaten down, out of control and about to give

by Linda and Doug

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Finding an Affair Recovery Specialist

Affair Counseling – A Specialized Focus by Tim Tedder, LMHC, NCC Imagine a man with high blood pressure being hit by a truck while crossing a street. He smashes to the pavement,

by GuestPoster

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Can a Trial Separation Actually Save a Marriage?

A separation can often be the result after an affair has been discovered. Though we feel it is possible that being separated while trying to recover can be a good

by GuestPoster

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Save Your Marriage by Saving Yourself

This post addresses how it may be appropriate to work more on yourself in order to save your marriage. One of the benefits of this site is to read and learn

by Linda and Doug

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