The Psychology of Affairs: The Games People Play and the Lies that Bind

A small peek into the psychology of affairs, what makes affairs tick and how people can get caught up in a very false and misleading psychology in order to continue an affair.

by Sarah P.

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What is Limerence and is it the Same as an Emotional Affair? The 3 Stages of Limerence

What is limerence? The 3 Stages of Limerence and is it the same as an emotional affair?

by Doug

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Infidelity in Marriage: It’s Always a Choice

One can come up with hundreds of excuses for infidelity in marriage, but the person having an affair always has the choice to do or not to do.

by Sarah P.

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Another Neighborhood Marriage Bites the Dust

by Doug As I was getting the mail out of our mailbox recently, our next-door neighbor, Dave, pulls up onto his driveway, gets out of his car and saunters over to

by Doug

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EA or PA? The Labels We Assign to Affairs – Are They Really Important?

By "Rose" Lately I have been journaling a lot; suggested by my therapist, it really helps to get the emotions out. Sometimes I’ll write my spouse a nasty-gram but then don’t

by GuestPoster

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Musings on Infidelity: Affairs Are Not Original and Not Excusable

By Sarah P. The things that people say and do during affairs are so predictable that it is almost funny. Unfortunately, broken trust, destroyed lives, and broken families are no laughing

by Sarah P.

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Coping with the Pain of Infidelity

We received an email the other day from a reader who writes the following: I have been in contact with you during the last few months. Your site continues to be

by GuestPoster

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Don’t Be Caught Off Guard – How to Recognize An Emotional Affair: Suspicions, Signs, and Symptoms

We discuss how to recognize an emotional affair - the different suspicions you might have, some signs, red flags, symptoms, etc.

by Linda and Doug

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The Worst Third Grader Ever

Does “Austin” act much like a cheater does, or do cheaters act like third graders?

by Linda

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Online Affairs – What They Are, How They Start and the Damage They Cause

One thing that we’re somewhat surprised about is the number of people who we communicate with whose spouse has had an online affair. No physical connection whatsoever. And when we say

by Linda and Doug

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