More Crucial Things that Wayward Spouses Need to Know

I go over some of the mistakes that cheaters make after their affair (including myself) and the lessons learned from those mistakes. I framed the article as “things I wished I’d known.”

by Doug

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Q&A With An Unfaithful Wife

A couple of years ago we did an interviews with an unfaithful wife, Sara. It will give you an idea of the mindset of unfaithful women and men.

by Linda and Doug

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Universal Behaviors of Wayward Spouses that Sabotage a Marriage After an Affair

Here are a few of the many universal behaviors by wayward spouses that sabotage a marriage after an affair is discovered.

by Sarah P.

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An Unfaithful Person Ponders His Actions and His Pain

An unfaithful person looks back in time and ponders his actions and wonders wonder if the partner who has had the affair is really understood.

by GuestPoster

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He Said, She Said: When the Wayward Spouse Plays the Victim Role

You, as a betrayed spouse, must shut down conversations where a cheater plays the victim card or rationalize away their actions.

by Sarah P.

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The Wayward Spouse Must Take a Leading Role in Your Recovery

The wayward spouse must take a leading role in your recovery and do the heavy lifting. It is not acceptable for you to do the work of recovery alone, especially since you are not the one who broke the marriage.

by Sarah P.

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“How Could You?” – The Psychology of Justifications, Rationalizations and Excuses for Infidelity

The excuses for infidelity are often big lies built on tiny grains of truth which allows the cheater to blame their actions on someone, or something else.

by Doug

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Do People Who are Unfaithful Lose 50 IQ Points?

This is a bit of a rant about the sheer stupidity of some people who are unfaithful.

by Sarah P.

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Do Women Who Have Affairs with Married Men Destroy the Sisterhood?

Women who have affairs intentionally by targeting a married man, hurt 'the sisterhood.' By Sarah P. While at first glance, this may appear to be an article that is interesting to women,

by Sarah P.

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Will I (Or My Spouse) Have An “Affair Relapse?”

Affair relapse is a common thing, but it doesn't have to be inevitable. By Doug I’ve never really kept track of the numbers, but I’m guessing that well over 50% of the

by Doug

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