As the unfaithful spouse, if you want to repair the foundation of your marriage, you have to know how to become trustworthy after the affair.Sarah P.
Why Did I Cheat? Doug and Sarah P. interview author and Marital Therapist Andrew G. Marshall on this very important topic.Doug
I go over some of the mistakes that cheaters make after their affair (including myself) and the lessons learned from those mistakes. I framed the article as “things I wished I’d known.”Doug
Here are a few of the many universal behaviors by wayward spouses that sabotage a marriage after an affair is discovered.Sarah P.
An unfaithful person looks back in time and ponders his actions and wonders wonder if the partner who has had the affair is really understood.GuestPoster
You, as a betrayed spouse, must shut down conversations where a cheater plays the victim card or rationalize away their actions.Sarah P.
The wayward spouse must take a leading role in your recovery and do the heavy lifting. It is not acceptable for you to do the work of recovery alone, especially since you are not the one who broke the marriage.Sarah P.
The excuses for infidelity are often big lies built on tiny grains of truth which allows the cheater to blame their actions on someone, or something else.Doug