He Said, She Said: When the Wayward Spouse Plays the Victim Role

You, as a betrayed spouse, must shut down conversations where a cheater plays the victim card or rationalize away their actions.

by Sarah P.

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The Wayward Spouse Must Take a Leading Role in Your Recovery

The wayward spouse must take a leading role in your recovery and do the heavy lifting. It is not acceptable for you to do the work of recovery alone, especially since you are not the one who broke the marriage.

by Sarah P.

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“How Could You?” – The Psychology of Justifications, Rationalizations and Excuses for Infidelity

The excuses for infidelity are often big lies built on tiny grains of truth which allows the cheater to blame their actions on someone, or something else.

by Doug

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Do People Who are Unfaithful Lose 50 IQ Points?

This is a bit of a rant about the sheer stupidity of some people who are unfaithful.

by Sarah P.

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Do Women Who Have Affairs with Married Men Destroy the Sisterhood?

Women who have affairs intentionally by targeting a married man, hurt 'the sisterhood.' By Sarah P. While at first glance, this may appear to be an article that is interesting to women,

by Sarah P.

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Will I (Or My Spouse) Have An “Affair Relapse?”

Affair relapse is a common thing, but it doesn't have to be inevitable. By Doug I’ve never really kept track of the numbers, but I’m guessing that well over 50% of the

by Doug

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Cheaters’ Remorse – Going Beyond “I’m Sorry”

What are some things the unfaithful person can do to show their remorse beyond just saying they’re sorry? By Doug One of the issues we’ve been hearing a lot about lately during

by Doug

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The Relationship Between Infidelity and Addiction

By Doug I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had a conversation with someone about their struggles with their partner’s affair and the addictive nature of infidelity is brought up

by Doug

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“Hey There, Can I Use You?” – What Happens When a Wife Marries the Other Man

By Sarah P. This is a post that I have waited for a long time to write. It's about what happens when a wife marries the other man. Now that the

by Sarah P.

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The Hero-Fantasy Aspect of Affairs

Photo by chickspirit By ‘TryingToGetOver’ Our cheating husbands and wives all wanna be freakin’ super heroes. A year into the healing process I was using a journal with a goofy Star Wars theme, scribbling on

by GuestPoster

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