Building Self-Confidence After It’s Been Shattered by Infidelity
How can a person increase their chances of building self-confidence after an affair?
Doug
Affair Recovery
Doug
My Best Friend’s Affair Story
My best friend from high school had an affair that ended his marriage. Here’s his affair story. It may seem familiar in many ways. These past two weekends have been a...
Doug
Dear EAJ: After Nearly a Decade, I Am Still Not Over the Affair
What does a person do when it’s been almost 10-years and is still not over the affair? By Sarah P. We are introducing a new series that answers questions...
Sarah P.
Marriage Crisis After D-Day: You Have the Power of Choice and That Is Everything
In this blog post, I will discuss the concept of power and control and how it relates to affair recovery. The goal of this article is to empower betrayed spouses at a...
Sarah P.
The Aftermath of an Affair – How Dealing With This Means Dealing With That
In the immediate aftermath of an affair, you have one, big, soul-crushing and perhaps relationship-ruining betrayal to work through. By ‘TryingToGetOver’ Dragging the truth...
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Introspection On the Part of the Betrayed Spouse
By ‘Blindsided’ I am Blindsided. I chose this name for this site, because that is what happened to me. I was 100% blindsided when I found out, quite accidentally...
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Eureka, We Found it: The Recent Origins of Blaming the Betrayed Spouse
By Sarah P. For a while, I have wondered how the myth of blaming the (usually) female betrayed spouse found its way into modern psychology. After all, modern psychology...
Sarah P.
A Tribute to All of the Wonderful Women and Men Who Walk Alongside Us
By Sarah P. You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Surviving is important; thriving is elegant. My mission in...
Sarah P.
Affair Discovery – Like Getting Hit By a Truck
By “TryingToGetOver” The last thing I wanted to hear when my husband’s affair was discovered was how long and hard the road to recovery would be. But it takes...
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Row the Boat – A Metaphor for Affair Recovery
By Doug A few weeks ago, I couldn’t sleep. Usually when this happens I either head down to my basement office and start working, or I head to the couch, flip on the TV...
Doug