What Happens When Mom Has an Affair: A Review of the Book Mended

Mended is a genuine story of restoration and grace that opens a window into the lives of an ordinary family with an astonishing account of their personal recovery from infidelity.

by Sarah P.

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Needing To Be Heard – Get Your OWN Words Out!

If you are needing to be heard - but are someone who hates to talk - the "good" news of the affair is that recovery is going to change that. It has to.

by GuestPoster

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Building Self-Confidence After It’s Been Shattered by Infidelity

How can a person increase their chances of building self-confidence after an affair?

by Doug

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My Best Friend’s Affair Story

My best friend from high school had an affair that ended his marriage. Here’s his affair story. It may seem familiar in many ways.

by Doug

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Dear EAJ: After Nearly a Decade, I Am Still Not Over the Affair

What does a person do when it's been almost 10-years and is still not over the affair? By Sarah P. We are introducing a new series that answers questions that are emailed

by Sarah P.

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Marriage Crisis After D-Day: You Have the Power of Choice and That Is Everything

In this blog post, I will discuss the concept of power and control and how it relates to affair recovery. The goal of this article is to empower betrayed spouses

by Sarah P.

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The Aftermath of an Affair – How Dealing With This Means Dealing With That

In the immediate aftermath of an affair, you have one, big, soul-crushing and perhaps relationship-ruining betrayal to work through. By ‘TryingToGetOver’ Dragging the truth out of your loved one, then healing your

by GuestPoster

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Introspection On the Part of the Betrayed Spouse

By 'Blindsided' I am Blindsided. I chose this name for this site, because that is what happened to me. I was 100% blindsided when I found out, quite accidentally that my

by GuestPoster

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Eureka, We Found it: The Recent Origins of Blaming the Betrayed Spouse

By Sarah P. For a while, I have wondered how the myth of blaming the (usually) female betrayed spouse found its way into modern psychology. After all, modern psychology purports to

by Sarah P.

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A Tribute to All of the Wonderful Women and Men Who Walk Alongside Us

By Sarah P. You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Surviving is important; thriving is elegant. My

by Sarah P.

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