Marriage Crisis After D-Day: You Have the Power of Choice and That Is Everything

In this blog post, I will discuss the concept of power and control and how it relates to affair recovery. The goal of this article is to empower betrayed spouses

by Sarah P.

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The Aftermath of an Affair – How Dealing With This Means Dealing With That

In the immediate aftermath of an affair, you have one, big, soul-crushing and perhaps relationship-ruining betrayal to work through. By ‘TryingToGetOver’ Dragging the truth out of your loved one, then healing your

by GuestPoster

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Introspection On the Part of the Betrayed Spouse

A blog member shares her thoughts on the importance of introspection on the part of the betrayed spouse with respect to where the marriage went off track.

by GuestPoster

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Eureka, We Found it: The Recent Origins of Blaming the Betrayed Spouse

By Sarah P. For a while, I have wondered how the myth of blaming the (usually) female betrayed spouse found its way into modern psychology. After all, modern psychology purports to

by Sarah P.

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A Tribute to All of the Wonderful Women and Men Who Walk Alongside Us

By Sarah P. You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Surviving is important; thriving is elegant. My

by Sarah P.

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Affair Discovery – Like Getting Hit By a Truck

By "TryingToGetOver" The last thing I wanted to hear when my husband’s affair was discovered was how long and hard the road to recovery would be. But it takes work and

by GuestPoster

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Row the Boat – A Metaphor for Affair Recovery

By Doug A few weeks ago, I couldn’t sleep. Usually when this happens I either head down to my basement office and start working, or I head to the couch, flip

by Doug

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Goldi-Child, the Three Bears, and Beds: Who Takes the Blame for Infidelity?

By Sarah P. Sometimes people think I am too hard on the affair partner. There is a backstory as to why, but since people who read this blog do not know

by Sarah P.

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Narcissism: The Difference Between Affair-Driven Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder

How do you differentiate between someone with life-long narcissistic personality disorder and someone who has developed these traits due to an affair?

by Sarah P.

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It’s Time for a Christmas Miracle: How to Have a Holiday Truce When Recovering from an Affair

By Sarah P. Despite all the messages that tell us to spread cheer or have a Holly-Jolly Christmas, the holidays can be a very difficult time for many people. Not all

by Sarah P.

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