To Tell or Not Tell - You Decide

This is the latest installment of our ‘You Decide’ series where you will provide your opinion on a semi-fictional affair scenario. This time we’re considering an...

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The Aftermath of an Affair – How Dealing With This Means Dealing With That

In the immediate aftermath of an affair, you have one, big, soul-crushing and perhaps relationship-ruining betrayal to work through. By ‘TryingToGetOver’ Dragging the truth...

by GuestPoster

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The Relationship Between Infidelity and Addiction

By Doug I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had a conversation with someone about their struggles with their partner’s affair and the addictive nature of infidelity is...

by Doug

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“Hey There, Can I Use You?” – What Happens When a Wife Marries the Other Man

By Sarah P. This is a post that I have waited for a long time to write. It’s about what happens when a wife marries the other man. Now that the person in question is...

by Sarah P.

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Open ‘Mic’ Discussion #34 – What’s On Your Mind?

So, it’s time once again for an Open ‘Mic” Discussion. In case you didn’t know, or are new to our site, the open discussion is where you guys call the...

by Linda and Doug

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Prepare for Valentine’s Day Triggers: Here Is Why Affair Partners Cannot Truly Love Each Other

This is a painting within a painting within a painting within a painting within a painting. This painting is also like a rabbit hole of sorts. I picked this image because it...

by Sarah P.

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How to Handle a Bunny Boiler and the Other Person Who Won’t Go Away

Photo by Claudia Dea How to handle a bunny boiler, as well as how to handle the other person who just simply won’t leave you and/or your spouse alone. By Doug Several...

by Doug

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The Hero-Fantasy Aspect of Affairs

Photo by chickspirit By ‘TryingToGetOver’ Our cheating husbands and wives all wanna be freakin’ super heroes. A year into the healing process I was using a...

by GuestPoster

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The Affair Recovery Timeline – Shorten It With This One Shift by the Unfaithful Spouse

Photo by nicolgaravello By Doug If you’re a betrayed spouse, I think that you will agree with me when I say that your affair recovery timeline would be substantially shorter...

by Doug

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The Illusion and the Delusion of People Who Have Affairs

By Sarah P. They say that a picture (or even a drawn image) is worth a thousand words. Here is an image I will let you contemplate… because this short cartoon panel is worth...

by Sarah P.

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