A Betrayed Spouse Needs to Know the Details of the Affair
A betrayed spouse writes to his wife as to why it’s so important for him to know the details of the affair.
Linda and Doug
Linda and Doug
The Sound Relationship House and How it Relates to Infidelity
While the Gottman Sound Relationship House is not a metaphorical magic wand, it is a concrete tool that couples can use to heal.
Doug
The Mind of a Cheater – Ambivalence, Approach and Avoidance
There are a few things that are going on in the mind of a cheater when it comes to deciding on whether to end their affair or not.
Linda
Open ‘Mic’ #42 – What’s Going On?
Open Mic - It's time to discuss what's going on and share your struggles - and your successes.
Linda and Doug
Infidelity Disrupts the Number One Component of Happy Marriages and Why this Disruption Causes Pain
The number one question that betrayed spouses often ponder is this: how can the person who loved them so much hurt them so badly.
Sarah P.
Boundaries After Betrayal – Everything You Need to Know
Boundaries after betrayal are meant to keep the hurt spouse safe. They are to establish what's OK- and what's not OK.
Linda and Doug
Healing from an Affair and Self-Care – An Interview with Molly Chanson
Molly Chanson's husband had an affair. Her marriage didn't survive - but she sure did!
Doug
Staying After Cheating: Is It the Right Thing to Do?
Staying after cheating – This article delves into some of the reasons people stay in marriages after they have discovered their spouse’s affair.
By Sarah P.
(This was originally posted on 10/11/2016
Sarah P.
The Affair Recovery Efforts of an Unfaithful Husband – A Case Study (Part 1)
A former unfaithful husband gave us permission to share a portion of his affair recovery efforts in the hopes of helping others.
Doug
More Crucial Things that Wayward Spouses Need to Know
I go over some of the mistakes that cheaters make after their affair (including myself) and the lessons learned from those mistakes. I framed the article as “things I wished I’d known.”
Doug