Dear EAJ: After Nearly a Decade, I Am Still Not Over the Affair

What does a person do when it’s been almost 10-years and is still not over the affair? By Sarah P. We are introducing a new series that answers questions...

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Cheaters’ Remorse – Going Beyond “I’m Sorry”

What are some things the unfaithful person can do to show their remorse beyond just saying they’re sorry? By Doug One of the issues we’ve been hearing a lot...

by Doug

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Marriage Crisis After D-Day: You Have the Power of Choice and That Is Everything

In this blog post, I will discuss the concept of power and control and how it relates to affair recovery. The goal of this article is to empower betrayed spouses at a...

by Sarah P.

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To Tell or Not Tell – You Decide

This is the latest installment of our ‘You Decide’ series where you will provide your opinion on a semi-fictional affair scenario. This time we’re considering an...

by Linda and Doug

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The Aftermath of an Affair – How Dealing With This Means Dealing With That

In the immediate aftermath of an affair, you have one, big, soul-crushing and perhaps relationship-ruining betrayal to work through. By ‘TryingToGetOver’ Dragging the truth...

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The Relationship Between Infidelity and Addiction

By Doug I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had a conversation with someone about their struggles with their partner’s affair and the addictive nature of infidelity is...

by Doug

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“Hey There, Can I Use You?” – What Happens When a Wife Marries the Other Man

By Sarah P. This is a post that I have waited for a long time to write. It’s about what happens when a wife marries the other man. Now that the person in question is...

by Sarah P.

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Open ‘Mic’ Discussion #34 – What’s On Your Mind?

So, it’s time once again for an Open ‘Mic” Discussion. In case you didn’t know, or are new to our site, the open discussion is where you guys call the...

by Linda and Doug

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Prepare for Valentine’s Day Triggers: Here Is Why Affair Partners Cannot Truly Love Each Other

This is a painting within a painting within a painting within a painting within a painting. This painting is also like a rabbit hole of sorts. I picked this image because it...

by Sarah P.

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How to Handle a Bunny Boiler and the Other Person Who Won’t Go Away

Photo by Claudia Dea How to handle a bunny boiler, as well as how to handle the other person who just simply won’t leave you and/or your spouse alone. By Doug Several...

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