Prepare for Valentine’s Day Triggers: Here Is Why Affair Partners Cannot Truly Love Each Other

This is a painting within a painting within a painting within a painting within a painting. This painting is also like a rabbit hole of sorts. I picked this image because it...

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How to Handle a Bunny Boiler and the Other Person Who Won’t Go Away

Photo by Claudia Dea How to handle a bunny boiler, as well as how to handle the other person who just simply won’t leave you and/or your spouse alone. By Doug Several...

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The Hero-Fantasy Aspect of Affairs

Photo by chickspirit By ‘TryingToGetOver’ Our cheating husbands and wives all wanna be freakin’ super heroes. A year into the healing process I was using a...

by GuestPoster

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The Affair Recovery Timeline – Shorten It With This One Shift by the Unfaithful Spouse

Photo by nicolgaravello By Doug If you’re a betrayed spouse, I think that you will agree with me when I say that your affair recovery timeline would be substantially shorter...

by Doug

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The Illusion and the Delusion of People Who Have Affairs

By Sarah P. They say that a picture (or even a drawn image) is worth a thousand words. Here is an image I will let you contemplate… because this short cartoon panel is worth...

by Sarah P.

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Take Your Anger and Shame and Burn It! 5 Practical Ways to Build Yourself Back Up After Infidelity

By ‘TryingToGetOver’ So much is out of our control when our spouse betrays us. We can’t magically make our marriage whole again, nor regain our former trust. Our...

by GuestPoster

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Your 2019 New Year’s Resolutions for Affair Recovery

(Note: This is a re-post we do every New Year, only we’ve updated it for 2019) Happy New Year! Every year we spend a great deal of time during the week...

by Linda and Doug

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Merry Christmas!

Graphic by Torley There’s More to Christmas… There’s more, much more to Christmas Than candle-light and cheer; It’s the spirit of sweet friendship That brightens all the...

by Linda and Doug

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Trying to Get Inside the Mind of the Other Woman – 5 Reasons the OW Does What She Does

An affair survivor confides in some friends who are cheaters and gets inside the mind of the other woman. by ‘TryingToGetOver’ There are two people in this world who I...

by GuestPoster

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Behavior Towards Betrayed Spouses that is No Longer Acceptable

This article is about behavior that is no longer acceptable: Making cruel and blaming statements about betrayed spouses, statements that invalidate the experience of...

by Sarah P.

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