Trying to Get Inside the Mind of the Other Woman – 5 Reasons the OW Does What She Does

  An affair survivor confides in some friends who are cheaters and gets inside the mind of the other woman. by ‘TryingToGetOver’ There are two people in this world who I told about my husband’s affair. And they are both cheaters themselves. Why would I tell them, of all people? Well…because I trusted that they […]

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Behavior Towards Betrayed Spouses that is No Longer Acceptable

  This article is about behavior that is no longer acceptable: Making cruel and blaming statements about betrayed spouses, statements that invalidate the experience of the betrayed spouse, and statements that silence the feelings of the betrayed spouse. By Sarah P. This post has been a long time in the making. It has been simmering […]

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5 Things That Point to Healing After Betrayal

  A survivor shares 5 things she’s noticed that indicate she is healing after betrayal. by ‘TryingToGetOver’ The betrayal of an affair comes with so much raw hurt, sadness and anger that it threatens to overwhelm you. The shock of it stunned me. What was even harder was that it didn’t seem to wear off. […]

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Do You Have an Ethical Obligation to Tell the Betrayed Spouse that Their Spouse is Cheating?

  A real-life scenario that addresses the question: Is there an ethical obligation to tell the betrayed spouse if their husband or wife was having a sexual affair? By Sarah P. A couple of weeks ago, I received some questions about a situation involving infidelity. The person asking the question had walked in on married […]

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Open ‘Mic’ Discussion #33 – What’s On Your Mind Today?

  It’s been 4 months since we’ve had an open discussion.  Shame on us!  In case you didn’t know, or are new to our site, the open discussion is where you guys call the shots and discuss the topics that you want to discuss. We know there must be some things that are going on […]

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What to Say When a Wayward Spouse Blames You for the Affair

  This article is for people who would like to stay in their marriages. This article is for people who would like tips on how to respond to a wayward spouse when a wayward spouse blames you for the affair. By Sarah P. If a betrayed spouse is done with a marriage, the best response […]

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How to End an Affair – The Right Way

  Okay, so you’ve decided (or your spouse has) to get off the fence and break things off with the affair partner. Fantastic! Before you do however, read this article to learn how to end an affair – the right way. By Doug Let’s start this off by considering the following brief scenario… Dan has […]

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That Paradox of the Look of Disgust

By Sarah P. It is an unmistakable look and you have probably seen it on the cheater’s face after you found out about the affair. The cat was out of the bag: your spouse was now a confirmed cheater and yet your spouse was looking at YOU with disgust. You are the one that should […]

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Introspection On the Part of the Betrayed Spouse

By ‘Blindsided’ I am Blindsided. I chose this name for this site, because that is what happened to me. I was 100% blindsided when I found out, quite accidentally that my husband was engaged in an affair. At the time – my D Day – I did not know that it was an emotional affair, […]

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How to Cheat on Your Spouse Without Feeling Guilty

By Sarah P. This title at first glance appears to both be click bait AND a way to instruct wayward spouses to cheat without guilt. However, appearances are not always as they seem. This article is about the mindset that a wayward spouse develops in order to carry on an affair. This article will discuss […]

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