Needing To Be Heard – Get Your OWN Words Out!

If you are needing to be heard - but are someone who hates to talk - the "good" news of the affair is that recovery is going to change that. It has to.

by GuestPoster

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Open ‘Mic’ #38 – The Holidays Are Coming. What’s On Your Mind?

In this Open Mic, we'd like to focus on the upcoming holidays and the typical struggles that occur during this time of year.

by Linda and Doug

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Grieving After an Affair: When Will I Get Over It?

There will be a loss of your sense of self after D-day. And there will be feelings of losing the marriage you once knew. This is what grieving after an affair is all about.

by Sarah P.

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Lee Baucom PhD: The Common Theme That Fuels Infidelity is F.A.L.S.E.

Lee Baucom Ph.D. believes there is a common theme of what fuels infidelity. It’s an easy to remember acronym: F.A.L.S.E.

by Doug

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Building Self-Confidence After It’s Been Shattered by Infidelity

How can a person increase their chances of building self-confidence after an affair?

by Doug

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Stop, Drop, and Roll: Taking the Burn Out of Communicating About Infidelity

What are some behaviors that can be helpful during the explosive moments that typically occur when communicating about infidelity?

by Sarah P.

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Cheaters Can Be Masters at Emotional Manipulation

Let’s dive into this whole emotional manipulation topic a bit more and hopefully it can help some of you realize what’s going on in your relationships.

by Doug

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No Peeking: I Finally Stopped ‘Peeking’ In On My Husband’s Affair Partner

I had a problem with wanting to stalk my husband's affair partner. I finally was able to stop!

by GuestPoster

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Q&A with Psychotherapist David Feder

Doug talks with Psychotherapist David Feder, MSW, RSW, CSAT, EMDR to get his take on several member submitted questions - from both betrayed and unfaithful individuals.

by Doug

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Hey, What’s Going On With Your Brother In Law?

A short update on Linda’s brother and his whole situation. In case you didn't know, he had an affair and wound up marrying his affair partner.

by Doug

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