We are Linda and Doug and we’re just a normal couple who have been able to survive infidelity and go on to create a much stronger and more intimate marriage.
We’ve had this blog since late 2009, and over that period of time we’ve had the honor of communicating with thousands of people who have been affected in some way by infidelity - both those who have been hurt by an affair, and those who have been unfaithful.
In nearly 100% of those cases, the people are struggling. They are searching for anything that can help them get over the lingering pain, crushing emotions, confusion, conflict and uncertainty they are experiencing.
We understand that. We really do because we have lived through it too.
You see, many people who are struggling with recovery from an affair are floundering and have no clue what it takes, what they should or should not be doing, or how best to focus their energies.
That’s understandable and we have to say that we did not know how to either when we were going through this.
It’s hard work. It takes time. But you can survive the affair and have a wonderful marriage if you can manage to do the right things and avoid doing the wrong things.
While it’s true that many couples don’t make it after their marriage is rocked by infidelity, if you have the desire to save your marriage and are willing to give 100% effort, then who is to say that your marriage can’t just survive, but thrive as well.
We’re here to show you the right way so that your marriage doesn’t become some sort of statistic.
We’ve been in your shoes and are in a unique position to put all of our experiences – both good and bad, successes and failures – and use them to help lead you out of the pain and into a better place.
Our whole aim for starting this blog in the first place was to help people survive infidelity and rebuild their marriage based on our own experiences – both good and bad – and through the knowledge we’ve picked up along the way from books, other experts and through research.
So if you want to join us and gain the knowledge that real-life experiences have taught us - and others, please click the button below to get updates from us and receive the "The 10 Most Important Lessons about Surviving Infidelity."
Linda & Doug