The Mind of a Cheater – Ambivalence, Approach and Avoidance

There are a few things that are going on in the mind of a cheater when it comes to deciding on whether to end their affair or not.

by Linda

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Real Life Hardnosed Advice on How to Stop an Affair

Much of what is written on the subject of how to stop an affair seems to be along the lines that one cannot effectively do so. This post will look at the other side of the argument...

by Doug

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How to End an Affair – The Right Way

Okay, so you’ve decided (or your spouse has) to get off the fence and break things off with the affair partner. Fantastic! Before you do however, read this article

by Doug

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Why Don’t Cheaters Leave Their Spouses for the Affair Partner?

The stats are overwhelmingly high that married men and women who have affairs typically don't leave their spouse for the affair partner. So why don’t cheaters leave their spouses? Most betrayed

by Linda and Doug

the 4m's of why cheaters cannot leave their affair partners

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The Four M’s: Why Cheaters Cannot Leave Their Affair Partners

Spouses cannot wrap their head around the idea of why cheaters cannot leave their affair partners. Rightly so, we assume that it would be an easy decision, especially when the

by Sarah P.

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Time For Real Talk – The leverage you have when your husband won’t leave the other woman

by Sarah P. Note: This is the first installment of a two-part series where Sarah P. will address the leverage one has when their spouse won't leave their affair partner. This week

by Sarah P.

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How to Get the Cheater Out of the Affair Fog

A good portion of my time for this website is devoted to mentoring people who are struggling with infidelity in some way. And 99% of that mentoring time is spent

by Doug

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Six of Today’s Top Marriage Problems

By John and Wendy Godfrey No two couples are exactly the same, just like no two people are exactly the same — and yet, there are commonalities across marriages that are

by GuestPoster

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Merry Christmas!

"The joy of brightening other lives,bearing each other's burdens,easing other's loadsand supplanting empty heartsand lives with generous giftsbecomes for us the magic of the holidays." -W.C. Jones Thank you for being a

by Doug

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Moving On from the Affair Too Soon

We love to hear success stories from readers. We recently received an email from a person who was rejoicing about how she and her husband have been able to put

by Linda

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