Should You Tell Your Partner if You’re Having an Affair?

We received an email this past week that included a video recording of a Google Hangout session where there was a panel discussion of sorts about the pros and cons

by Linda and Doug

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Don’t Wait 6 Years to Admit You Have Marriage Problems

Because we have this blog, I often find myself observing and analyzing people in normal situations, perhaps making a few assumptions, and then sharing it with you guys in an

by Doug

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4 Reasons Why Couples Counseling is Not a Good Idea if the Affair Has Not Ended

There is a question that comes up often from betrayed spouses after discovering an affair and that is, “Should I go to therapy with my partner if he (she) hasn’t

by Linda and Doug

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‘Without Question, Infidelity is a Deal Breaker’

This post is just going to be a short rant. I watched a video the other day on a very popular website that spotlighted a couple who had successfully healed and

by Doug

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Attachment Patterns, Narcissism and How They Relate to Infidelity

This is the third - and final - part of Sarah P’s series on Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and the narcissistic mother-in-law. In this post, Sarah discusses attachment patterns, narcissism

by Sarah P.

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A Real Story of a Couple Driven Apart By a Narcissistic Mother-in-Law

This is part one of a three-part series by Sarah P. called, "Three In the Bed: Narcissistic Mother-in-Laws, Attachment, and How It Affects Your Marriage" Note: After seeing some of the

by Sarah P.

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What Do You Do if You Committed an Affair?

While perusing the web the other day, I found this great podcast by Dr. Lee Baucom. Dr. Baucom is a trained therapist, life coach and the creator of the very

by Doug

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When Friends are Enemies of Your Marriage

The other day we received the following email from a reader… “I haven't seen anything on what friends are safe for the cheater. I believe some of my wife's friends knew

by Linda

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Five Steps to Saving Your Marriage

If saving your marriage is a priority but you're having a hard time communicating and reconnecting with one another, consider the following five steps, which are based on sound concepts

by Linda and Doug

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How to Have a Happy Marriage in Just 21-Minutes a Year

When Linda and I were much younger we had a very large circle of friends who we would consider to be “good” or “close” friends. Each of us had friends

by Doug

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