Why Triggers Are So Hard and Why They Should Never be Minimized

Even though I am 17 years out from D-Day, I still suffer from post affair triggers and when they come, they are powerful.

by Sarah P.

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After Infidelity the Only Thing That is For Certain is Uncertainty

If uncertainty after infidelity is an issue for you right now, you need a game plan for effectively coping so that you can better handle it and ...

by Linda and Doug

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He Said, She Said: When the Wayward Spouse Plays the Victim Role

You, as a betrayed spouse, must shut down conversations where a cheater plays the victim card or rationalize away their actions.

by Sarah P.

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How Infidelity Affects the Eight Areas that Lead to Successful Relationships

Infidelity affects all eight areas of successful relationships and steals in the night all that was sacred. Infidelity infects, infiltrates, and slowly poisons that thing we called love for each other.

by Sarah P.

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Cheaters Can Be Masters at Emotional Manipulation

Let’s dive into this whole emotional manipulation topic a bit more and hopefully it can help some of you realize what’s going on in your relationships.

by Doug

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Q&A with Psychotherapist David Feder

Doug talks with Psychotherapist David Feder, MSW, RSW, CSAT, EMDR to get his take on several member submitted questions - from both betrayed and unfaithful individuals.

by Doug

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A Quick Guide to Recognizing and Responding to Gaslighting

Gaslighting is terrible because it is a planned, plotted, and intentional abusive behavior on the part of a cheater or emotional abuser. Here’s a quick guide to recognizing and responding to gaslighting.

by Sarah P.

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Why People Cheat in Relationships

People are always looking for reasons to explain why people cheat in relationships. Cheating is a choice. But, studies suggest that some people are more likely to cheat in relationships than others.

by Sarah P.

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My Husband Left Me – Then I Discovered the Affair – What Do I Do Now?

A reader shares her story of her husband suddenly leaving her and then discovering there was another woman.

by Doug

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The Pain of Betrayal – Do We Have Adequate Words to Describe What it Feels Like?

When it comes to describing the actual pain of betrayal, words often fail us. The pain of being betrayed is a visceral experience and your body feels it and experiences it.

by Sarah P.

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