how to survive an affair if you're the cheater

After the Affair – I Want More

Hey everybody! Since it's Linda and the girl's spring break, we're going to take a little time off and head to the mountains for a little R&R. I'm sure we'll

by Linda

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How the Cheater Can Deal with Triggers

This is a guest post by Sara K. on how the cheater can deal with triggers caused by the memories of their affair. It may surprise the spouse but it is

by Doug

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Real Reasons the Emotional Affair Happened

A reflection on the reasons my emotional affair happened. By Doug Over the past 3 years, I’ve tried my hardest to make amends for my actions that occurred while in my emotional

by Doug

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After the Affair – Control the Affect of the Cheater’s Choices

If you’ve been trying to heal after the affair for any length of time, you have probably said to yourself something along the lines of: “Boy, if I would have

by Linda

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Things a Cheating Spouse Can do To Rebuild Trust After an Affair

It’s pretty evident that one of the biggest struggles that our readers are experiencing is rebuilding trust after an affair. If I were to summarize what a betrayed spouse needs

by Linda

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Dealing With the Shame and Embarrassment After Infidelity

It was a long, tiring holiday weekend for us which culminated in about one hour of sleep last night due to some very late night drama with one of our

by Doug

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Affair Recovery – Moving On After Infidelity

There are a lot of books about affair recovery, healing and moving on after infidelity, but they all seem to be written for couples who want to stay together after

by Linda and Doug

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The Emotional Affair Still Confuses Me at Times

It seems that Doug’s emotional affair can pop into my brain even at times when everything is going great. Doug and I spent Saturday at a local blues festival where we

by Linda

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After the Emotional Affair: I Hate You!

Believe or not this is totally uncharacteristic of me to have such negative feelings against another human being. Generally, I try to see the good side in everyone.Realistically, I know

by Linda

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Journey to Trust: Rebuilding Trust After an Affair (it’s coming…)

After a lot of hard work and navigating through loads of technical stuff, we’re happy to let you all know that our new e-book, Journey to Trust: Rebuilding Trust After

by Doug

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