Merry Christmas!

Graphic by Torley There’s More to Christmas… There’s more, much more to Christmas Than candle-light and cheer; It’s the spirit of sweet friendship That brightens all the year; It’s thoughtfulness and kindness, It’s hope reborn again, For

by Linda and Doug

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Trying to Get Inside the Mind of the Other Woman – 5 Reasons the OW Does What She Does

An affair survivor confides in some friends who are cheaters and gets inside the mind of the other woman. by ‘TryingToGetOver’ There are two people in this world who I told about

by GuestPoster

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Behavior Towards Betrayed Spouses that is No Longer Acceptable

This article is about behavior that is no longer acceptable: Making cruel and blaming statements about betrayed spouses, statements that invalidate the experience of the betrayed spouse, and statements that

by Sarah P.

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5 Things That Point to Healing After Betrayal

A survivor shares 5 things she's noticed that indicate she is healing after betrayal. by 'TryingToGetOver' The betrayal of an affair comes with so much raw hurt, sadness and anger that it

by GuestPoster

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Do You Have an Ethical Obligation to Tell the Betrayed Spouse that Their Spouse is Cheating?

A real-life scenario that addresses the question: Is there an ethical obligation to tell the betrayed spouse if their husband or wife was having a sexual affair? By Sarah P. A couple

by Sarah P.

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Open ‘Mic’ Discussion #33 – What’s On Your Mind Today?

It's been 4 months since we've had an open discussion. Shame on us! In case you didn't know, or are new to our site, the open discussion is where you guys

by Linda and Doug

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That Paradox of the Look of Disgust

By Sarah P. It is an unmistakable look and you have probably seen it on the cheater’s face after you found out about the affair. The cat was out of the

by Sarah P.

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Introspection On the Part of the Betrayed Spouse

A blog member shares her thoughts on the importance of introspection on the part of the betrayed spouse with respect to where the marriage went off track.

by GuestPoster

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How to Cheat on Your Spouse Without Feeling Guilty

This article is about the mindset that a wayward spouse develops in order to carry on an affair.

by Sarah P.

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Revenge Fantasies – All the Things I Want to Say

By “TryingToGetOver” One of the most frustrating parts of recovery is having about a million things you want to say to the person who stole your spouse’s attention. None of those

by GuestPoster

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