We get a fairly large volume of comments and emails from mostly victims of marital affairs. One particular email recently struck a nerve with us. The email was from a woman who basically blamed herself entirely for her husband’s affair. The email was full of phrases such as, “I should have done…” “If only I were a better…” “I feel so guilty about…”
The email was really quite frustrating, and we really felt badly for this woman for placing so much responsibility and guilt squarely on her shoulders.
With this in mind… If you were the one who was cheated on, do you feel any responsibility, blame or guilt for the affair? Why or why not?
Please feel free to share your story, and respond to each other’s comments!
Have a great day!
Doug & Linda