I fell apart after discovering Doug’s affair. My initial shock quickly became endless numbness. However, I didn't know what to do. I didn't understand at the time that taking care
Hello everyone!In our last survey, there was a question that asked if you all had any suggestions for topics that you’d like to see addressed on our site.One reader had
As many of you know, quite a while back I "suffered" from the addiction of "stalking" the OW. Every day I would find myself staring at her pictures, checking out
We wanted to thank everyone who took the time to respond to our most recent survey. There are always some interesting takeaways (interpretations) when we do these things and this
This week we want to discuss whether or not you should tell the other person's (OP's) spouse about the affair.
Over the course of the last several months of doing this
A couple of years ago we received an email from a reader with an account of her situation dealing with PTSD after infidelity. We had wanted to post her email
What are the dreaded "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" and how can they destroy your marriage if you don't act quickly?
John Gottman, Ph.D., is a well respected psychologist, marriage researcher
Impressive title, eh? (Maybe not so much)
Every now and then we like to take the pulse of the readers by taking a reader survey. So this week, in lieu of
Why do some couples manage to have a thriving, healthy marriage while others barely survive or fail?
Not too long ago we converted our seldom-used living room into a library of
In our recent book, Healing from an Affair – A cheater’s guide to helping your spouse heal from your affair, we establish 27 tasks that a cheater must be