An Emotional Affair is Like Being a Teenager Again

Doug has said on a few occasions that his emotional affair made him feel like a teenager again. I can attest to that because if you look at the characteristics

by Linda

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An Emotional Affair Lacks a Strong Bond

I’m so glad that we have started the Affair Recovery Group. I have gained so much knowledge and insight from our discussions with Jeff Murrah, that everyday I feel lighter

by Linda

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Control Your Thoughts So The Emotional Affair Doesn’t Control You

During my last counseling session there was much discussion on how the thoughts of the emotional affair still consume my life. My therapist asked if there was any time that

by Linda

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Our Emotional Affair Recovery One Year Later

Today is the first year anniversary of starting this blog and we thought it would be appropriate to present to you a status update of sorts on our emotional affair

by Doug

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Accepting the Past and My Emotional Affair

Linda’s post from yesterday was by coincidence quite timely. I received an email yesterday from a former co-worker that the once-manager of our office was moving out of town, and

by Doug

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Linda’s Interview about Confronting the Other Person

One of the many decisions that face the betrayed spouse is whether or not confronting the other person is a smart thing to do. In our experiences, we've heard many stories

by Doug

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The Emotional Affair Still Causes Pain

I have been struggling with a lot of emotions lately. So many thoughts are going through my head and I am having difficulty sorting everything out. I really don’t know

by Linda

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My Emotional Affair With My Best Friend’s Husband

I realized a very important lesson recently and that is because of Doug’s emotional affair I am very vulnerable to having one myself. For two years I have been fantasizing

by Linda

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An Important Reminder About Healing From an Emotional Affair

I was reminded this weekend of a valuable lesson about recovering and healing from an emotional affair. A lesson that certainly was obvious, but one that I had lost sight

by Doug

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A Letter to Doug About His Emotional Affair

I brought up a few conversations with Doug last week about details of his emotional affair with Tanya that really did not make him very happy. I understand why, (my

by Linda

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