Discussion – Lessons Learned During Affair Recovery

If you’ve been a reader or member of our blog for any length of time, then you are probably aware that every now and then we like to utilize our

by Linda and Doug

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Getting Over the Affair – Minimizing the Damage of “Loving” the Affair Partner

If you’ve experienced infidelity you certainly realize that getting over the affair is rough – really rough. When the cheater has professed their love for the affair partner, it makes

by Linda

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Change Your Thought Process – The Blame is Not Yours to Take

I have been a true believer in the laws of attraction for several years. I believe that if you constantly think negative thoughts, negative occurrences will transpire in your life.

by GuestPoster

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Discussion – What Do You Fear Most?

Hello Everyone! Regardless of whether you are a cheater or the hurt spouse, after the affair you are probably living in fear. Consider the following description of fear: “Fear is an emotional &

by Doug

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Our Interview with Joyce Smith, MA, MFT (Audio Discussion)

We recently had the pleasure on speaking with Joyce Smith, MA, MFT via telephone about a variety of infidelity recovery issues. Naturally, we recorded the conversation so that you all

by Doug

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Handling New Normal During the Holiday Season

by Sara K.Thanksgiving marks the beginning of a whole lot of a family togetherness and celebration. In a normal situation, this can be stressful enough – visiting family, too much

by GuestPoster

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What are You Thankful For?

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving here in the US. It’s a great time to be with friends and family, but it can also be a very difficult time once an affair has

by Doug

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The Children are the Victims When the Marriage Has to End

A real life account demonstrating how the children of divorce are often the real victims. By Mary C. My daughter and I were sitting on my bed talking. My divorce to her

by GuestPoster

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Do You Want to Be Independent or Codependent?

Codependent relationships are a veritable petri dish for self-loathing, guilt, resentment, sometimes addiction and definitely a downward spiral. by Sara K. One of the most life-changing books I’ve ever read, Codependent

by GuestPoster

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Discussion – Competing With the Affair Love

Hello everyone! Real love, unlike affair love, is not a fantasy. Affair love is romantic dinners, enticing conversation and sexual excitement in a hotel room. Typically, it does not last. Real

by Linda

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