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Case Study: What To Do When the Other Woman Refuses to Leave Your Marriage Alone

by Sarah P. Take A Queue From Anne Wojcicki While Keeping Your Head Held High  The couple, who is currently living separately, have two young children. They have been pegged as Generation X’s answer to Bill and Melinda Gates. If you read my other post about when men do stupid things, you’ll remember that Anne […]

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Self Talk – The Excitement of the Affair vs Marriage Reality

One aspect of recovering from an affair that is difficult to overcome is the conversation about the affair that you have with yourself.  It’s the ever constant and overwhelming discussions that occur in your head.  I know that I talk to myself all the time.  We all do.  Fortunately, these days what I say is […]

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The Narcissistic Mother-in-law – Part 2

This is the second part of Sarah P’s three-part series on Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and the narcissistic mother-in-law.  In this post, Sarah delves into the definition and management side of NPD while tying it together with her example from her first post. ‘Narcissism’ has become a catch-all term that includes selfishness, self-centeredness, greed, and […]

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Extramarital Affairs: What to Do When Smart Men Do Stoopid Stuff

By Sarah P. Senator Weiner, Bill Clinton, John F. Kennedy, Sergey Brin… They all have one thing in common. All of these otherwise “smart” men have done really stupid things when it comes to fidelity. When I started to date, my dad would tell me jokingly, “Be careful! Men are just like dinosaurs you know. […]

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Reader Attempting to Heal the Relationship Alone

Here is an email exchange between myself and a reader who is trying to heal the relationship by himself.  We thought it might provide you with some beneficial information.  Please feel free to add your own thoughts or advice in the comment section below the post. A reader writes: Wondered if you can help me? […]

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The Affair Fantasy Post Roundup

We’re going to do something a little different today.  We’re calling it a “Fantasy Post Roundup.”  Affair fantasy that is. Every affair begins in some way as a fantasy.  They also continue to drag on and become hard to end due to the fantasy. Lynn Margolies, Ph.D. says… “The most common element driving the power […]

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Save Your Marriage with a 180

Today we have one of our older posts from nearly 3 years ago on the subject of doing a “180″ to help save your marriage and/or get your spouse to end the affair. There isn’t a day that goes by that we don’t get at least one email from a betrayed spouse who is having […]

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Real Life Hardnosed Advice on How to Stop an Affair

Much of what is written on the subject of how to stop an affair seems to be along the lines that one cannot effectively do so.  That is, the betrayed is basically left powerless when it comes to making the cheating spouse end their affair. This post will take the other side of the argument […]

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Discussion – The Crazy Things You’ve Done After the Affair

When on the emotional roller coaster that comes with infidelity, one can do some crazy things.  Not necessarily crazy bad – like firing a gun at the cheater – but more like crazy stupid or perhaps even crazy funny. So let’s try to lighten things up just a bit this week and take a few […]

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