Today we wanted to show you a nice video from Dr. Huizenga, the Infidelity Coach, and author of “Break Free From the Affair” about the 8 Stages of Recovery. In the video he goes through the 8 different emotions that one feels after being victimized by infidelity. One of the main points of the video is for the betrayed spouse to focus more on yourself so that you can move yourself through the 8 states of recovery faster.
We have referred to “Break Free From the Affair” many times through out our ordeal, and it has been an extremely valuable resource for us. In fact, our copy of the book is all dog-eared and almost worn out, and is sitting underneath my comfy chair in our family room!
After viewing the video, please comment on what stage you or your spouse are currently in and how you are focusing on you.