It’s Wednesday, and once again I was sitting at my computer trying to come up with a topic for our weekly discussion. Fate would have it that I got distracted, and ended up checking the comments along with my email. I received an email on today’s subject from Dr. Huizenga, and a wonderful comment about the same subject from one of our readers. That sealed the deal for me!
We have mentioned on this site numerous times that affair love is not real love. It’s a fantasy. Affair love is romantic dinners, enticing conversation and sexual excitement in a hotel room. It does not last. Real love is much more than that deep down, but on the surface there is much more of the realities of everyday life.
So here are this week’s discussion questions…Do you believe you are/were competing with a fantasy? If you are the spouse who is currently in, or has had an affair, do you believe that your affair is/was a fantasy? And finally, how do you compete with a fantasy?
As always, please respond to each other’s comments.
If any of you have ideas for future discussion topics, please send us your suggestions!
Have a great day!
Doug & Linda