We all make mistakes in a marriage. After the affair though, these mistakes tend to come to the forefront of the betrayed spouse’s mind, with thoughts of self-blame and guilt for the failings of the marriage.
More than likely, the betrayed spouse needs to take responsibility for their contribution to the deterioration of the marriage – as should the cheating spouse – but the cheater was solely at fault for the affair. End of story.
With these thoughts in mind…How does one take some responsibility for the problems in their relationship without feeling at fault for the affair? Is is possible?
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Have a great day!
Doug & Linda