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Discussion: What are You Thankful For?

Happy Thanksgiving Eve! The holiday season has sneaked up on us again this year as usual, but both Linda and I really do love this time of year. We always have. However, the holidays can be a tough time for those suffering from the effects of infidelity, but we were hoping that we could maybe […]

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Discussion: Should a Cheating Spouse Confess?

Happy Wednesday! Many of the recent comments have centered around the subject of confession. As we stated in a previous post on the subject, there are only two possibilities – confess, or don’t confess. However, there are arguments for both sides of the fence, and this week we’d like to hear some of your thoughts. […]

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Discussion: Do Cheating Spouses Regret Their Actions?

Hello everyone! With the seemingly ever-increasing instances of emotional affairs and physical affairs occurring in our neighborhood, as well as all over the world, it would seem that there are a tremendous amount of cheating spouses walking around with much guilt and regret. Though the sting of my guilt and regret have eased over time, […]

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Discussion: What Are Your Greatest Struggles After the Affair?

Hello everyone! Getting over an affair is a struggle. It’s a struggle with respect to how you approach the wayward spouse, and it’s a struggle with respect to how you approach and manage your emotions. Our discussion for this week centers on your struggles…What are your greatest struggles at the moment with respect to the […]

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Discussion: What Will You Do to Make Them Stay?

Hello everyone! If your spouse says they no longer love you, and you feel more like enemies than friends, what chance is there for turning the relationship around and restoring the love? (Dr. Frank Gunzburg say’s the love may NOT really be dead.) Our discussion for this week centers on these questions…What if your spouse […]

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Discussion: Have You Had Success With Couples Counseling?

Hello everyone! Many of our readers have mentioned that they are currently seeing a therapist or are planning to do so. We are curious about your experience while in therapy. So this week’s discussion question is…Have you gone through any couples relationship counseling, and if so, has it helped you or your relationship? Do/did you […]

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Discussion: What Stands in the Way of Restoring Trust After the Affair

Hello Everyone! It’s time for our weekly discussion. Here goes… It’s hard to argue with the notion that trust is the backbone of any good relationship. Trust can be easily broken and extremely difficult to rebuild. After the affair there can be many obstacles that prohibit you from being able to rebuild the trust in […]

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Discussion: What Does Your Spouse Need to do After the Affair?

Hello everyone! After the affair, many of us are looking for answers. “Why did this happen?” What could I have done so that it wouldn’t have happened?” “What is the other person like?” The list goes on and on. We are also looking for something from the cheating spouse. A true apology, to show remorse, […]

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Discussion: Do You Feel Responsible for the Affair?

Hello everyone! We get a fairly large volume of comments and emails from mostly victims of marital affairs. One particular email recently struck a nerve with us. The email was from a woman who basically blamed herself entirely for her husband’s affair. The email was full of phrases such as, “I should have done…” “If […]

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Discussion: After the Affair Is it Harder to Rebuild Trust or Respect?

Hello everyone! The betrayal that has occurred by your spouse with his/her marital affair tears apart any trust or respect that you once had. Both can be rebuilt, but to do so is tough. In my opinion both must be regained in order to get past the affair and save your marriage. With this in […]

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