Infidelity causes intense emotional pain--anger, disbelief, fear, guilt and shame. But an affair doesn't have to mean the end of your marriage.
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Happy Wednesday! Recently we have been focusing many of our blog topics on things like breaking the affair addiction, getting the cheater to do what’s necessary to gain forgiveness, empowering yourself, etc. But what if your cheating spouse refuses to help in any way, or perhaps is only putting forth half-assed effort? Or worse yet, [...]
As our discussion this week we wanted to report back to you the result of our healing from infidelity survey that we conducted the other day. I can’t really say that the results were surprising as it seems that rebuilding trust is always the number one issue that folks have. What was a bit surprising [...]
Hello everyone! We hope that your week is going well. Instead of our normal discussion today, we wanted to conduct another quick, 1 question survey. Regardless of how far out you are from discovering your partner’s affair, the ultimate goal is healing and recovery. Basically, getting over the affair and allowing yourself to move on. [...]
Good Wednesday to all of you! There’s no question that an affair has life-long effects for all parties involved. The impact can be especially tremendous on the children. As Jeff Murrah, would say, “It’s the hurt that keeps on hurting.” The damage of cheating often goes on through generations. What may have been a one-night [...]
It’s discussion Wednesday again! One of the things that I first learned about affair recovery was the importance of taking care of myself – basically getting strong both emotionally and physically and tending to my most important needs. When I mentor someone this is one of the main aspects that I like to stress. While [...]
Hello Everybody! We had a very nice Christmas and we hope that you managed to do the same. Since everybody is home from school, we’ve been taking it easy and just enjoying the holidays and the time off. We’ll take the rest of the week off from blogging, but did want to throw out a [...]
Happy Wednesday! We’re going to stay on the holiday theme since this can be such a tough time for anyone working at affair recovery. We actually asked this same question at this time last year and wanted to go ahead and ask it again. Since this is the holiday season and is often said to [...]
Good Wednesday to everyone! As the holidays fast approach, many of you I’m sure not only have your thoughts on shopping and gift giving, but also on affair recovery, rebuilding trust and healing from the affair. This time of year can certainly provide you with a real roller coaster ride of emotions that flies from [...]
Hello everyone! Certainly after an affair has been discovered your marriage will struggle and you may have considered seeing a marriage counselor but wonder, “Does marriage counseling work?” A statistic was brought to my attention that said marriage counseling had a failure rate of 75%. If this statistic is in the ballpark of being accurate, [...]
It’s been five months since we last asked you all to share your affair recovery success stories, and I believe it is well overdue for us to ask again. We need some positive reinforcement every now and then, and I think we need it NOW! Sometimes we think, read and hear so much about the [...]
