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Stupid Things Said While in an Affair

This post may not be appropriate, however sometimes it’s nice to add a little humor when the content is so serious. I did not intend to make fun of Doug or make him look stupid, even though he was!  I just think some of the things he said were humorous. It’s true that when you […]

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Save Marriage Secrets with Save My Marriage Today

Hi there, After Linda discovered my emotional affair with Tanya, she became a research fanatic.  She scoured the Internet for hours at a time trying to find anything that would help our situation and offer advice on how to heal the pain that she was feeling.  I reluctantly read several of them, but most of […]

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Connecting with Your Spouse

Linda and I went out of town this weekend to finish up a project I’ve been working on for my sister the past couple of months.  We worked most of the day painting and sanding drywall, and then we went out to dinner at a local pub both Saturday and Sunday night.  Outside of the […]

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Speak Your Mind Calmly

One of the issues that may have caused Linda and I to drift apart was  the fact that we both tended to shy away from confrontation.  Now on the surface you might think that it isn’t such a bad thing to do,as there sure are a lot less arguments that way! However, when things were […]

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That Loving Feeling

In response to Linda’s post from yesterday, I’d like to say that looking back on things, there came a point when I realized that there were too many things that were so important to me that I was risking losing by my continuing to have a relationship with Tanya.   I guess the first and […]

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Signs of An Emotional Affair Part Two

I thought it would be helpful to show you a brief video of what renowned relationship therapist, Dr. Sheri Meyers considers as signs of an emotional affair.  Enjoy:

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Emotional Affair Signs

This post will tell you everything you need to know about the signs of an emotional affair, as well as those signs I noticed with Doug. We are often asked by readers about  the emotional affair signs that a person should look out for – both from the standpoint of suspecting their spouse of an […]

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An Issue of Trust

One of the hardest things we’ve had to deal with lately about my emotional affair is that Linda is continuing to have a problem with trusting me and continually questions whether I really do love her.  It’s not a question of trust in the normal sense of Linda thinking I’m out on the prowl for […]

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How It All Started

Linda and I have been married for close to 25 years now, and there was not one single event that lead up to me having an emotional affair with a co-worker.  Rather, it was a culmination of many things.  Generally speaking, I would have to say that it was a combination of both of us […]

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