We’ve been hanging out in Vermont and surrounding areas for the last several days having a great time. Not to mention escaping the heat and humidity that exists back home. So rather than another article this week, we thought it was a good time for another Open Discussion. Besides, it’s been 2 months since the […]
Why the Pick-Me Dance Does Not Work
Copyright Jim Davis. Jim Davis, if you are reading, I spent many an evening at Fox Fire’s and spent lots of money there just to save my sanity from the hell that is that particular town. I also did you the courtesy of not bothering you at your house (located on you know what lake) […]
Row the Boat – A Metaphor for Affair Recovery
By Doug A few weeks ago, I couldn’t sleep. Usually when this happens I either head down to my basement office and start working, or I head to the couch, flip on the TV and hope to find some sort of sporting event I can watch with the sound off so that it puts […]
Wife’s Worst Nightmare: Ashley-Madison Now Has More Female Subscribers than Male Subscribers
By Sarah P. This article is a warning of the things to come. I have no good answer for this situation, but regardless, all the betrayed spouses of the world need to be on guard because Ashley-Madison now has more female subscribers than male subscribers. I will give some tips at the end of this article […]
Goldi-Child, the Three Bears, and Beds: Who Takes the Blame for Infidelity?
By Sarah P. Sometimes people think I am too hard on the affair partner. There is a backstory as to why, but since people who read this blog do not know me, I have hesitated sharing all of it. After all, the lives of other people are not TV shows where we sit back and […]
The State of Things – A Personal Update
It’s been awhile since we’ve posted an article of a personal nature. An article where we more or less step away from the infidelity talk, and simply bring you up to speed about stuff that’s going on in our lives. So that’s what we’re going to do! Where the Heck is Linda? As you make […]
The Ultimate Poach: When Your Husband Gets the Other Woman Pregnant
By Sarah P. Wives, knowing what your husband has done with the OW, does not have to ruin your marriage. Linda and Doug have been receiving many emails lately where wives have unfortunately found out their husband’s mistress is pregnant OR their husband already has had a child with his mistress/OW. So they asked me […]
How to Handle Triggers – You Decide!
This is the latest installment of our ‘You Decide’ series where you will provide your opinion on a fictional affair scenario. This time we’re considering a situation where Phil had multiple physical encounters outside of marriage – over 40 years ago. His wife discovered one of his infidelities after finding some old letters stored […]
Oh No, It’s Mr. Bill: The Real Life Story of a Sex-Addicted, Narcissistic Man
By Sarah P. Even though this is a post on sex-addiction, this post contains a little bit of everything as well as many mini-stories and anecdotes. In this post, we will take an unflinching look at how sex-addiction plays out in real life. Some of the stories will be sad while others will (hopefully) provide […]
Open ‘Mic’ Discussion #31 – What’s On Your Mind?
It’s hard to believe that our last Open ‘Mic’ Discussion was all the way back in February. So let’s get to it again! But first… We were contacted a while back by Darylevuanie Johnson, a licensed professional counselor who helps individuals recover from the impact of infidelity in his practice. At this moment, he is a doctoral student at […]
Discover the 10 Most Important Lessons about Surviving Infidelity
This short guide tells you what you need to know to survive the affair, heal yourself and emerge on the other side a stronger person.
Infidelity Guides
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It’s Tough To Stop an Emotional Affair
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When the Other Woman Becomes the Wife
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The Runaway Spouse Syndrome
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Real Reasons the Emotional Affair Happened
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Staying After Cheating: Is It the Right Thing to Do?
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How Does A Betrayed Spouse Heal from Cheating?
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Open House Discussion
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Does the Other Woman Play A Role In an Affair or Does the Blame Land Solely on the Cheating Husbands? YOU Decide
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Open ‘Mic’ Discussion #32 – What’s On Your Mind?
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Why the Pick-Me Dance Does Not Work
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Row the Boat – A Metaphor for Affair Recovery
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Wife’s Worst Nightmare: Ashley-Madison Now Has More Female Subscribers than Male Subscribers
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Goldi-Child, the Three Bears, and Beds: Who Takes the Blame for Infidelity?
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The State of Things – A Personal Update
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The Ultimate Poach: When Your Husband Gets the Other Woman Pregnant
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How to Handle Triggers – You Decide!
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Shifting Impressions: Lotus Hopeful has given you some excellent advice...
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Hopeful: Lotus, I am at the 3 1/2 year mark past dday. You ...
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Lotus: Hi there, I thought this might be the place to s...
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Patty: My D-day was 14 months ago. My husband lied and li...
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Michele: My husbands previous EA partner at work is a repea...
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Doug: Hey geogal, I'm horrible with time lines and dat...
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TheFirstWife: K. The other thing that I said to my H during his...
Discover the 10 Most Important Lessons about Surviving Infidelity
This short guide tells you what you need to know to survive the affair, heal yourself and emerge on the other side a stronger person.
