Open ‘Mic’ Discussion #22

It’s been a while since our last open mic discussion – where you guys discuss the topics that are most important to you. This is Open Mic #22 and we know there must be some things that are going on that you can either ask questions about, share your experiences – or maybe just do a little […]

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The Collateral Damage Caused by an Affair

The Collateral Damage Caused by an Affair

When I was a sophomore in high school, I had a steady boyfriend named Keith.  He was a senior and the captain of the football team, and I was a cheerleader.  We were a typical small town high school couple. Young, dumb and full of drama. At that time I certainly thought Keith was my […]

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Why People Cheat – 11 Reasons to Consider

This week Bella Ryan was kind enough to write a guest post for us offering her observations and opinions on the possible reasons why people cheat.  Thanks Bella!   Cheating on Your Spouse – Understanding the Dilemma Did you know that more than 50% of people in committed relationships cheat on each other? What’s more astounding […]

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Why the Cheater’s Angry Outbursts are Sometimes  Just Bull$#!+

Tell me if this doesn’t sound familiar… You and your cheating spouse seem to be getting along pretty good lately.  It’s been several months or more since the affair was discovered. You know the affair is over.  You’re reconnecting with each other somewhat (perhaps wonderfully), and you can definitely see things moving in a positive, […]

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Write Your Own Book

A little motivation to get the year started! And though this post has really nothing to do with infidelity or marital crisis, it certainly can be applied to those situations – and really all aspects of your life. For most of the civilized world, it seems that January is a month where people review the […]

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How Was Your Christmas This Year?

It’s a couple days after Christmas as we write this and we both feel pretty exhausted.  Christmas is always such a whirlwind around our home but this year seemed even more so. Perhaps it’s because we had back-to-back nights where we cooked and entertained for about 20 people – or maybe just that we’re getting […]

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Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas!

    At Christmas A man is at his finest towards the finish of the year; He is almost what he should be when the Christmas season’s here; Then he’s thinking more of others than he’s thought the months before, And the laughter of his children is a joy worth toiling for. He is less […]

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Your Wishlist for the Holidays

How about a pre-Christmas discussion?   Let’s delve into your affair recovery wishlist during the holiday season. The holidays are here and Christmas is just a few days away and we’re sure that many of you trying to get some last minute shopping done and are hoping for some holiday cheer. Yet at the same time […]

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the affair fog

How to Get the Cheater Out of the Affair Fog

A good portion of my time for this website is devoted to mentoring people who are struggling with infidelity in some way.  And 99% of that mentoring time is spent with betrayed spouses (usually female), and the vast majority of those betrayed spouses are desperately trying to figure out what the hell is running through […]

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Steven Stosny, PhD on Living & Loving After Betrayal

Recently a book had been brought to our attention that is authored by Steven Stosny, PhD.  It’s called Living & Loving after Betrayal: How to Heal from Emotional Abuse, Deceit, Infidelity, and Chronic Resentment .  The title alone made us think it might be useful for you guys so we were very motivated to check it out further. […]

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