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The Affair Recovery Group

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The Program

The Affair Recovery Group is a program that covers the key pressing issues important in dealing with affairs.  The program is broken up into 23 sessions.  You'll learn virtually everything you need to know about affairs and what it takes to heal and recover from them.

What's unique about this program is that this isn't just the two of us regurgitating information at you that you've probably already read in some book.  Rather, you can follow us as we dig deep into affair recovery with respected Marriage and Family Therapist, Jeff Murrah, LPC, LCDC, LMFT.

Additionally, these sessions with Jeff were conducted at a time when we were just a little more than a year from our own D-day....A time that was actually quite crucial to our own recovery and healing.

Thus, the questions (especially Linda's) are probably going to be quite relevant to what you're currently experiencing - or will soon experience.

This program is packed with real life, candid, professional, experienced based information, thoughts and feelings.  No fluff.

Topics Covered

  • The Affair Fantasy - Defining, explaining, managing and coping with it. (4 Sessions)
  • Forgiveness - What is is and is not, the process, our experiences. (3 Sessions)
  • The Affair Fog - What is is, experiences, dealing with it, A Therapist's perspective (2 Sessions)
  • Rebuilding Trust - Barriers to trust, our journey to trust, trusting yourself, more... (4 Sessions)
  • Obsessive Thoughts & Triggers - Their effects, Linda's experiences, dealing with them. (3 Sessions)
  • Dealing with Anger and Other Emotions (3 Sessions)
  • Effective Communication - Talking about the affair, communication hurdles. (1 Session)
  • Rebuilding Self Esteem - What it is, what it's like to lose it, getting it back. (1 Session)
  • Restoring Intimacy - Defining intimacy, how infidelity affects it, getting it back. (1 Session)
  • Case Study - Mentoring session with a betrayed spouse. (1 Session)

"I have spent hours upon hours researching about my husband's affair which continues in an "on again, off again" state. This was one of the most helpful and enlightening pieces of information I've heard. Thank you!"

- Toni

28 Ways This Program Will Help You in Your Recovery Efforts

Here are just 28 of the many, many questions that are addressed in this program:

  1. Are all affairs based on fantasies?
  2. How does the betrayed spouse attack the fantasy without causing further disconnection or resentment?
  3. Is it really possible to take a person away from the affair fantasy in the first place?
  4. How do you get to the true story of the affair?
  5. Why do most couples put out the wrong  "fire" when attacking the fantasies?
  6. Why is forgiveness so hard?
  7. What happens if there is no forgiveness?
  8. How does the forgiveness process work?
  9. Where do most betrayed spouses miss the boat when it comes to forgiveness?
  10. What can both the unfaithful and the betrayed spouse do to deal with the affair fog?
  11. What worked and what didn't work for Linda, and what did  she feel she should have done to get Doug out of the fog?
  12. How long is the trust building process?
  13. What exactly does it mean to not trust yourself?
  14. What are the 5 steps that somebody who’s lacking trust in themselves should take?
  15. What are the barriers that prevent trust from being rebuilt?
  16. What are the steps that a couple can take together to build trust in the relationship?
  17. What does it mean from a clinical standpoint to obsess about something?
  18. Why does the betrayed spouse obsesses about the affair?
  19. How can a person manage obsessive thoughts and triggers?
  20. What sort of things can the cheating spouse do to help the betrayed spouse manage their obsessive thoughts?
  21. What are the emotions that the cheater might be experiencing after their affair is discovered?
  22. What is the right way to express your anger?
  23. How do you find the clues as to what the emotions are really telling you?
  24. What are some steps that one can take to handle these emotions?
  25. How do you rid yourself of the bad feelings and free yourself to think clearly?
  26. What were the communication issues present before and during Doug's affair that may also be present in your relationship?
  27. What are ways to get the cheater to open up and talk more about the affair?
  28. What is intimacy and how can it be restored after infidelity?

Here's What's Included:

Depending on the option you choose you'll receive...

  • Complete access to the Affair Recovery Group Sessions

    23 audios (18+ hours) in MP3 and streaming format. Listen at your leisure on any device.

  • PDF transcripts of each session

    If you prefer to read, you can download, print and/or save to your computer

  • Bonus Session: "5 Secrets to Re-gaining Control After an Affair"

    Recorded webinar with Therapist Jeff Murrah that spawned the idea for the Affair Recovery Group

  • 14-Day Email Support or 1-Hour Telephone Mentoring Session

    If desired, you can get this extra level of personal support and guidance from us.

  • Access to the Private Forum

    Community forum access to the Affair Recovery Movement members area.  Get support from others in the same boat.

  • Hassle-free Lifetime money back guarantee.

    No risk to you as you can get your money back if you’re not satisfied.

When, Where and How to Join

  • Details: Full recordings and transcripts of The Affair Recovery Group are available to download, listen and/or read immediately.  (Note: The recordings are from telephone conversations with Jeff and therefore are not studio quality. That is why we have also provided the written transcripts.)
  • Access: You can listen to the audios from anywhere with an internet connection or download the sessions to your favorite portable audio device. And since we provide transcripts of each session, you can always read them if you prefer.
  • Length: More than 18 hours and 149,000 words in total.
  • Ready to join? Sign up and claim your spot in The Affair Recovery Group below.

Get Access Now to The Affair Recovery Group!

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The Core Program Only

Get access to The Affair Recovery Group for the small investment of $49.  Hassle-free Lifetime money back guarantee.

  • Complete access to the 23 audios (18+ hours) in MP3 and streaming format
  • PDF transcripts of each session
  • Bonus Session: "5 Secrets to Re-gaining Control After an Affair"

The World’s Greatest Guarantee

Plain and simple: This program will help you or it’s free.

The Affair Recovery Group is filled with practical, down-to-earth ideas, advice, perspectives and experiences that will help educate you and guide you in your affair recovery process.  We’re confident that you’ll benefit from the program. However, if you join the group and hate it, then we think you should get your money back. No hassles.

You can breathe easy with this purchase. Everything we create is backed by a satisfaction and effectiveness guarantee. That means if you’re not satisfied, we’re not satisfied. Just let us know and you’ll get your money back.



“Doug and Linda – this site has saved my sanity. I once again don’t know what’s happening with my marriage. I logged on tonight and it was like stepping into a therapy room. Thank you for continuing to maintain this site. It’s a Godsend to me, especially today.” - D.

"Finding out that my emotions were normal and completely valid made the path to healing a possibility.  Thanks Linda and Doug!" - T.

"I just read session 1 of The Affair Recovery program, and I know I have made the best decision in joining.Thank you to Jeff , Linda , and Doug. I have learned so much about how a new approach and mind-set will help in the understanding process." - M.

“Being that I am the unfaithful person in our marriage, I didn’t know the ‘real’ impact of my actions. Listening to the program with my wife gave me a better idea of the type of emotions she is going through and how I can help her work through her healing.” - D.

“Your program is like a revelation! Every day the trust in my marriage builds more and more! I really like the steps to rebuilding trust. This is hard to do, but you help make it easier.” - S.

"The Affair Recovery Group helped me to realize this isn't something to just sweep under a rug and move on from. I now know it's OK to talk about the affair and walk through the pain with others like me." - O.

"Thank you so much for this program!  I am getting valuable information from your Affair Recovery Group sessions.  You guys are like a lifeline for many of us for sure.  Your site is the best I've found!" - R.

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