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Advice for Betrayed Spouses – What to Do and What Not to Do

We came across the following piece of advice somewhere online. Neither one of us can remember exactly where, though it has the distinct feel of the Marriage Builders forum. In general, it offers sound advice for betrayed spouses to follow after affair discovery. As with any advice piece, it may not apply in its entirety […]

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The 9 Most Common Misconceptions about Infidelity

As a psychiatrist in the Brown University faculty, Scott Haltzman, MD has been researching men, women, marriage and relationships for more than a decade. In that time, he’s learned a lot about infidelity.  One thing he has realized is that when people find out about infidelity, they often make all kinds of assumptions about how and […]

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Discussion – What Would Have Prevented the Affair?

Thanks to everyone who joined in on the discussion from last week.  It was a great response and we appreciate it – and you guys – very much. One of the comments was from an ex-CS who has contributed quite a bit on this site and has obviously made great strides since ending the affair. […]

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Cheating in a Relationship – Should the Other Person Be Confronted?

Today we have another guest post from Mary C. where she delves into situations when the affair partner should be confronted after there was cheating in a relationship. Once again, I may refer to the other person as a woman. It’s only because I am a woman and other women are what I had to […]

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Discussion: Getting Them To Stop the Affair

Hello Everybody! Linda and I have read many comments and have mentored several individuals lately where the issue of the cheating spouse not ending the affair is a real ongoing problem. We’re sure that there are many more people that visit this site and other sites that have the same problem but are just not […]

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Recovering From an Affair is a Process

This weekend we received a comment suggesting that instead of me memorializing the day Doug told me he didn’t love me anymore, I should celebrate the day he told me I was the best thing that ever happened to him.  I teased Doug and asked him when exactly that day was – today or yesterday […]

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marital infidelity

Marital Infidelity – an Addiction

I was in my car the other day listening to talk radio and there was a marital infidelity counselor on who was taking calls from listeners.  One of the callers was in an affair with a woman in his city and he was having a hard time ending it.  In fact, he said that he […]

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Stupid Things Said While in an Affair

This post may not be appropriate, however sometimes it’s nice to add a little humor when the content is so serious. I did not intend to make fun of Doug or make him look stupid, even though he was!  I just think some of the things he said were humorous. It’s true that when you […]

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