The other day a young woman, who just discovered her husband’s affair a couple of months ago, shared some of her story with us. One thing she mentioned is that she is having this incredible urge to snoop on her husband. Primarily by checking out his phone and computer every chance she gets.
Snooping after an affair is quite common and the desire to snoop is amplified since in most cases, the CS is less than forthcoming about divulging any of the affair details. There is also the element of not being “fooled” or hurt again that creates the urge to snoop.
There are a myriad of reasons for the need to snoop, so whatever the reason, this post contains some past reader comments on this issue that may provide some helpful perspectives.
Please feel free to add your own snooping related comments in the section below the post.
Here we go…
Again, if snooping is an issue for you (or has been) please add your perspective below in the comment section.