One of the first questions we ask when we found out our spouse has cheated on us is “Why?” It’s a question that probably eats most of all at the betrayed spouse as they try to wrap their minds around it all.
We’ve done a lot of reading on infidelity and there are two different points of view on this. One says that understanding why it happened is important for rebuilding the marriage and safeguarding against future betrayal. Another says the “why” will probably never really be known and is not that important.
What do you think… How Important is knowing Why?
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Doug & Linda