One of the therapeutic philosophies that we subscribe to and preach to others in posts and comments is the aspect of working on YOU in your efforts to heal after the affair. In short, get yourself strong both physically and emotionally and prepare for the rough road ahead. Linda wrote a very good post on this subject some time ago called “Don’t Lose Your Self Concept.”
With this in mind, here are the discussion points for this week:
Have you been working on YOU? If so, how? How has it effected you in your recovery and in your relationship? How has your spouse/partner reacted to this?
As always, please reply to each other in the comments. Each person leaving a comment is not an isolated incident. Many folks find the comments very helpful. Also, don’t forget to utilize the forum!
Doug & Linda