You Don’t Have to Stay Stuck.

Let’s figure this out — together.

If you're here, chances are something has broken.

Maybe it was an affair.

Maybe it was trust, shattered by secrecy or betrayal.

Maybe it’s not just your relationship that feels lost — maybe it’s you.

You’ve probably read the books, listened to the podcasts, scrolled through post after post trying to make sense of it all.

And yet… you still wake up with that ache in your chest and a thousand unanswered questions.

“Can we really get through this?”

“How do I even begin to heal?”

“What if I’m the one who caused the damage — does that mean I’m beyond help?”

That's where we come in.

We’re Linda and Doug.

We’ve lived this nightmare.

We know the shame, the grief, the fury, the confusion.

And we also know what it takes to get out of the spiral — not perfectly, but honestly. Not overnight, but steadily.

We don’t offer quick fixes.

We offer something better:

Mentoring that helps you get grounded, clear, and emotionally equipped — so you stop spinning and start healing.

This is for you if...

You’re the betrayed spouse wondering if you’ll ever feel safe or whole again
You’re the unfaithful partner desperate to make things right but terrified you’re already too late
You’re stuck in limbo, unsure whether to fight or walk away — but desperate for clarity
You’re exhausted from doing this alone

I have learned so much from your blog and our mentoring sessions. I really have no idea how I would have gotten through this without your help. I am a spiritual person, and I know you will be blessed in your life with all you do for others.
Annie

“I wanted to let you know how fortunate I am to have found your website and mentoring program. It has been one year post d-day after my husband’s 2 year emotional affair that eventually led to a physical one. Even though my husband has re-committed to our marriage and has been doing all the right things I still have times that my emotions get the best of me. Thank you so much Linda for your mentoring and getting me through some difficult challenges. Thank you for your great advice and for giving me hope and confidence. It is such a blessing to have you guys to turn to.”
Angela

What will actually change?

This isn’t about talking at you. This is about walking with you.

After a mentoring session with us, our clients often say things like:

“I finally feel seen.”

“I know what to do next.”

“This was the first time I didn’t feel judged.”

“You just put words to what I couldn’t even explain.”

You won’t leave with a bunch of theory.

You’ll leave with real tools. Real validation. Real direction.

And maybe most importantly — real hope that things can be different.

"My heart felt lighter after I spoke with Linda, it was a very good session for me to be able to connect with someone who understands and gets it. Many websites and blogs give sound advice but I can resonate with Doug and Linda most. At this point it's just good to have someone to listen, to tell me it's all going to be ok someday. The journey is far too lonely."
- Jessica

But what if...

“What if I’m not ready?”

Then you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. We meet you there — no pressure, no push. Just clarity.

“What if I spend the money and nothing changes?”

That’s a valid fear. And no, we can’t guarantee outcomes — but we can promise that this is the space where real change begins. Because you’ll finally stop doing it alone.

“What if my partner never changes?”

We don’t just work with ‘results’ — we work with you. Because healing doesn’t have to wait on someone else’s choices.

Here's what we believe...

If you're looking for surface-level tips, this isn't for you.

If you're hoping someone else will fix it for you, this isn’t for you.

But…

If you're tired of Band-Aids, and ready to deal with this for real — even if it’s messy, even if it’s hard — you’re in the right place.

We don’t do fluff. We do healing. We do honesty. We do hope that’s been earned.

Take the First Step

The next step? It’s simple — and safe.

You don’t have to commit to a big plan. Just start with one session.

We’ll meet you where you are, help you breathe again, and figure out what comes next — together.

Not sure if you’re ready? Feel free to reach out through our contact form — we’re happy to help you figure out your next step.

You don’t have to stay stuck.

And you don’t have to figure it all out today.

Just take one step.

We’ll be here when you do.

— Linda & Doug

You’re not alone — and this work actually works.

“We credit Doug and Linda with saving our sanity — and our 35-year marriage. Survive & Thrive gave us our first foothold, and mentoring helped us go deeper. Doug’s wisdom and Linda’s guidance helped us rebuild something even better than what we had before. I only wish we’d known this years ago.”
B & R, Married couple, one year into recovery

“I’ve had support from friends and family, but mentoring with Doug and Linda gave me something different: clarity, strength, and direction. They helped me through some of my darkest days and reminded me I am not who I used to be — I’m becoming someone I’m proud of.”
James, Unfaithful partner

“This is my ‘new’ family. The faces in this photo — they’re here, smiling, in part because of the hope and steadiness I found while working with Doug and Linda. Whatever the outcome, I know we’re going to be okay.”
Maggie, Betrayed partner

When you’re ready, choose the option that fits where you are.

Whether you need a single session to get grounded or a longer journey to work through the deeper layers, we offer flexible paths designed to meet you with care, honesty, and real help — never pressure.

Individual Sessions & Multi-Session Packages

Choose the Support Path That Fits Your Needs

First Step Session

Perfect if you’re overwhelmed, unsure, or just need someone to talk to right now.

No commitment, no pressure — just a safe space to breathe and figure out what comes next.

*Optional upgrade into a larger package if it feels like the right fit after your session.

$125/session

One 60-minute session

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Frequently Asked Questions

What happens after I purchase a session or package of sessions?

Immediately after completing your purchase you will be directed to a page that will have some basic information along with a contact form. Once you complete that contact form and send it to us, we will be notified and will attempt to contact you via email to schedule your first session.
If I purchase a multi-session package, do I schedule all of the sessions upfront?

You can certainly do that if you so desire, but typically most people schedule their sessions as they go along. More or less on an as-needed basis. However, you are certainly free to do this any way you want. After all, they’re your sessions and you determine when you want/need one.

How do the phone sessions work?

Once we determine when your first session will be, Linda or Doug will call you at the agreed upon time at the number you provide her. The session will last for an hour.

Remember that the sessions are not planned out or follow any sort of agenda. They are YOUR sessions and you are free to address whatever it is you would like to address.
Is it possible for my spouse to join us on the mentoring call?

You are more than welcome to have your spouse accompany you on the call. However, please notify us in advance of the call to let us know.

Conducting joint mentoring calls are typically a totally different dynamic than individual mentoring calls and require a different approach on our part. So it’s best to inform us in advance so that there are no surprises.

What if I have to cancel a session for some reason?

Just shoot us an email letting us know.

Our goal is to empower you, point you in the right direction and give you skills to heal your life and relationship … and to take your marriage to the next level. We look forward to helping you heal, get beyond the pain, and build a happy life on the other side of the affair.

Best Wishes,

Linda & Doug

Legal Disclaimer: Emotional Affair Journey's Mentoring program is not counseling, nor is it a substitute for counseling. It is a self-paced, self-directed support resource. Linda and Doug are not counselors or therapists. If you need professional counseling, please seek a licensed professional therapist in your area.