This week’s discussion is going to be geared towards the cheating spouse.
One of our readers suggested that it would be helpful for any betrayers who read this site to share their experiences. Specifically as it pertains to the cheating spouse not doing the things that the betrayed spouse wants or needs them to do.
The reader writes: “I think a lot of us betrayed want to know WHY our cheating spouses (in the healing process) don’t do the things we want/need them to do. It’s frustrating and it can really put a damper on the healing and ultimately the entire marriage. It would be great to hear from other people why they don’t want to talk about it and why some will NOT talk about it at all, etc.”
Obviously, you don’t have to be a betrayer to jump in on the discussion.
So if you understand why your spouse did or didn’t do what you needed them to do, or why they won’t talk about the affair, then by all means chime in.
Please try to use the information that any cheaters offer as a learning tool and not as a lightening rod for nasty comments.
Linda & Doug