Many are under the false assumption that a marriage or relationship has to really suck for it to be subjected to infidelity. We know that doesn’t have to be the case.
We’ve heard of many stories of couples who felt that their relationship was just fine – until it was blindsided by their spouse’s affair. Sure the marriage had its share of ups and downs, but no more or less than any other seemingly healthy relationship.
On the other hand, we have also heard of relationships that were fraught with knock-down-drag-out fights and non-stop arguing that also resulted in infidelity, but not necessarily so.
So here are the topic questions for the week…
How was your relationship prior to the affair? (I thinking that we should address the months and weeks leading up to when the affair started.)
Did the affair bring any negative pre-affair marital issues to light?
Have you been able work through any of these issues?
Do you feel your marriage is headed in the right direction? Why or why not?
Thank you so much for joining in the discussion. As always feel free to share as much detail as you wish.
Linda & Doug