How to Cope with a Cheating Spouse

Almost exactly 4 years ago we did a webinar with Marriage and Family Therapist, Jeff Murrah where we discussed several aspects of coping with cheating.  This webinar is loaded with useful tips and advice!

You can listen by either clicking the play button or by downloading the MP3 and/or PDF files to your computer using the links provided below.

Jeff Murrah, LPC, LMFT, LCDC

Infidelity Recovery Programs and Services

The following affair recovery and marriage rebuilding programs and services were created from our own experience with infidelity and how we saved our marriage to help you find healing and recovery from a situation that feels hopeless.

There is hope.

The Affair Recovery Movement

The Affair Recovery Movement – or AR Movement for short – is a member’s only area where the focus will be on recovering and healing from infidelity through interaction with a supportive community, access to volumes of materials and resources, and guidance from those who have been down this road before.

We want to help you get to a better place.

Survive and Thrive after Infidelity

For the last several years we have surveyed our readers and they have told us their most difficult struggles with respect to recovering and healing from an affair.

The end result is a total recovery and healing program that tackles the top 8 struggles in module format, that will not only help you survive the affair - but thrive!

The Unfaithful Person's Guide to Helping Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair

Healing after infidelity is virtually impossible without the joint efforts of both partners - especially the cheater.

Typically at some point after their affair, the ex-unfaithful find themselves getting off track, feeling lost and not knowing what to do or what to say throughout the healing and recovery process.  It's normal.

This program delves into the 24 'tasks' that the cheater must complete in order for him/her to transform him or herself from betrayer to healer.

Additionally, the program offers many other materials to help guide the unfaithful spouse towards a better understanding of what it takes to heal and recover.

If you are an unfaithful person - or married to one - and are looking for some answers, some direction - this program will do the trick.

Private Mentoring

To talk to someone who has gone through what you're going through and who can listen and empathize with you is an incredibly powerful and valuable thing. It's not just sympathy - it's empathy - and it's irreplaceable.

Miracles can happen and massive healing can take place. You can recover from this. We know. We did it. Whether you are the victim or the unfaithful, perhaps you just need a friendly voice to talk to that has walked in your shoes and has experienced what you are going through.

The Affair Recovery Group

There is no better teacher than knowledge and experience when trying to recover from infidelity.

Learn from 23 audios (plus transcripts) with over 18 hours of digging deep into the vaults of knowledge and experience of a couple that has survived infidelity and also of a Marriage and Family Therapist with over 25 years of experience counseling couples in crisis.

In addition, you can choose to get access to 2 additional layers of support through a private member only forum and your choice of 2-weeks of one-on-one email support or an hour-long mentoring session on the telephone.

Inside the Mind of The Unfaithful

What the Heck Is/Was Your Cheating Spouse Thinking?
Sometimes their behavior makes absolutely no logical sense.

Here’s the typical scenario we see played out over and over again - in 20 words or less… Spouse has an affair. Spouse gets caught. Spouse just wants to move on.

However, the betrayed spouse can't "just move on." They need to know the when’s, the why’s, the how’s and the where’s.

At the core of their quest for understanding is the need to know what in the heck is (was) going through the brain of their unfaithful spouse.

It’s this understanding of the unfaithful person’s mind that we’re going to try and help you with in this program.