The Hero-Fantasy Aspect of Affairs

Photo by chickspirit By ‘TryingToGetOver’ Our cheating husbands and wives all wanna be freakin’ super heroes. A year into the healing process I was using a journal with a goofy Star Wars theme, scribbling on

by GuestPoster

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The Affair Recovery Timeline – Shorten It With This One Shift by the Unfaithful Spouse

If you’re a betrayed spouse, I think that you will agree with me when I say that your affair recovery timeline would be substantially shorter if only your ex-unfaithful spouse would actually put more effort into doing the necessary work.

by Doug

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Trying to Get Inside the Mind of the Other Woman – 5 Reasons the OW Does What She Does

An affair survivor confides in some friends who are cheaters and gets inside the mind of the other woman. by ‘TryingToGetOver’ There are two people in this world who I told about

by GuestPoster

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How to Cheat on Your Spouse Without Feeling Guilty

By Sarah P. This title at first glance appears to both be click bait AND a way to instruct wayward spouses to cheat without guilt. However, appearances are not always as

by Sarah P.

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Wife’s Worst Nightmare: Ashley-Madison Now Has More Female Subscribers than Male Subscribers

By Sarah P. This article is a warning of the things to come. I have no good answer for this situation, but regardless, all the betrayed spouses of the world need

by Sarah P.

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But I’m Telling the Truth! – When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe the Unfaithful Person Even When They are Telling the Truth

Sometimes when the wayward spouse says, "But I'm telling the truth," they really are. But it can be hard for them to believed - for good reasons. By Doug Having mentored quite

by Doug

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Changing Places: When the Wayward Spouse Identifies as the Victim

In this article I have explained the psychology behind why sometimes the wayward spouse identifies as the victim. So what do you do?

by Sarah P.

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I Wish I Would Have Known That! – 7 Crucial Things Wayward Spouses Need to Know

We all make mistakes along our affair recovery journeys, but it sure seems as though the unfaithful spouse is the person making the lion’s share of them. I made my share

by Doug

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It’s Time for a Christmas Miracle: How to Have a Holiday Truce When Recovering from an Affair

By Sarah P. Despite all the messages that tell us to spread cheer or have a Holly-Jolly Christmas, the holidays can be a very difficult time for many people. Not all

by Sarah P.

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Why Don’t Cheaters Leave Their Spouses for the Affair Partner?

The stats are overwhelmingly high that married men and women who have affairs typically don't leave their spouse for the affair partner. So why don’t cheaters leave their spouses? Most betrayed

by Linda and Doug

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