But I’m Telling the Truth! – When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe the Unfaithful Person Even When They are Telling the Truth

Sometimes when the wayward spouse says, “But I’m telling the truth,” they really are. But it can be hard for them to believed – for good reasons. By ...

by Doug

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Changing Places: When the Wayward Spouse Identifies as the Victim

It can be almost impossible to reason with or repair your marriage when the wayward spouse identifies as the victim. By Sarah P. Any of us who have been betrayed spouses know...

by Sarah P.

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I Wish I Would Have Known That! – 7 Crucial Things Wayward Spouses Need to Know

We all make mistakes along our affair recovery journeys, but it sure seems as though the unfaithful spouse is the person making the lion’s share of them. I made my share of...

by Doug

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It’s Time for a Christmas Miracle: How to Have a Holiday Truce When Recovering from an Affair

By Sarah P. Despite all the messages that tell us to spread cheer or have a Holly-Jolly Christmas, the holidays can be a very difficult time for many people. Not all families...

by Sarah P.

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Why Don’t Cheaters Leave Their Spouses for the Affair Partner?

The stats are overwhelmingly high that married men and women who have affairs typically don’t leave their spouse for the affair partner. So why don’t cheaters...

by Linda and Doug

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Burning Questions: Is It Possible to Recover from an Affair in the Face of Unanswered Questions?

This article is about wayward spouses who actively withhold details and what happens when they do so. Is it possible to recover from an affair without knowing all the details?...

by Sarah P.

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Understanding Why You Had Your Affair – The Simple 5-Step Process

One of the biggest challenges for a person trying to recover from their spouse’s affair is understanding why the affair happened in the first place. Why did the unfaithful...

by Doug

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The 8 Pillars of Trust – Ways the Unfaithful Spouse Can Help Rebuild Trust

I listen to a few podcasts on a weekly basis. My listening interests range primarily from sports, to business to relationships. The other day I listened to a business-related...

by Doug

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The Funeral

We received a call from Linda’s brother that his ex-wife passed away early in the morning on October 26. She died of complications from Cirrhosis of the liver. She had...

by Doug

the 4m's of why cheaters cannot leave their affair partners

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The Four M’s: Why Cheaters Cannot Leave Their Affair Partners

By Sarah P. It’s the most troublesome, frustrating, and heartbreaking situation of them all: when you realize that even if your spouse stays with you, they won’t or...

by Sarah P.

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