Mile High Affair Club: The Affair Story on a Plane

By Sarah P. A couple of weeks ago, we had a seven-hour flight ahead of us. As always, I get the very back row. I do not care if the seats

by Sarah P.

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Affair Discovery – Like Getting Hit By a Truck

By "TryingToGetOver" The last thing I wanted to hear when my husband’s affair was discovered was how long and hard the road to recovery would be. But it takes work and

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The Ultimate Poach: When Your Husband Gets the Other Woman Pregnant

By Sarah P. Wives, knowing what your husband has done with the OW, does not have to ruin your marriage. Linda and Doug have been receiving many emails lately where wives have

by Sarah P.

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Getting the Affair Details – Maybe Trickle Truth is Best for Everyone

Getting the affair details - as little or as much as the betrayed spouse wants - is vital for healing. Yet, sometimes it works out that getting them gradually over

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Haunting Images: What Happens When You Know Too Many Details of Your Partner’s Affair

I wanted to talk about when you know too many details of your partner's affair and how it probably continues to affect you.

by Sarah P.

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The Runaway Spouse Syndrome

By Sarah P. It all started a long time ago—probably as long ago as marriage existed—but most recently this phenomenon was brought into focus by Vikki Stark in her book Runaway

by Sarah P.

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Affair Trauma Part 3: What I Learned at the Gottman Affair Trauma Seminar

Sarah gets into the nuts and bolts of trauma after an affair and what she learned from Drs. John and Julie Gottman

by Sarah P.

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Trauma Series Part One: PTSD and Affairs

Anytime there is an affair, trauma is not far around the corner. This is the first in a 3-part series on PTSD and Affairs. By Sarah P. Anytime there is an affair,

by Sarah P.

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Danger Ahead – You Can Live Without Your Spouse, But Not Without Yourself

Infidelity can annihilate our sense of self. By Sarah P. From the time we are children, we are told that when we grow up we must find a prince or princess charming and

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The Big Five: Gottman’s Communication Techniques to Talk about Infidelity

Implement these Five Steps to help you better talk about infidelity. They are a framework through which you can process arguments and other regrettable incidents. By Sarah P. It's almost always a

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