You Didn’t Choose This Pain—But You Can Choose What Happens Next
Survive and Thrive after Infidelity
A self-guided path to reclaiming your peace, your power, and your future.
If you’re here, it’s probably because your world just cracked open.
Maybe it happened days ago.
Maybe it’s been months—or years—and the wound still throbs.
Either way, something sacred was broken: your trust, your sense of safety, your belief that you mattered most.
And now you’re left with a thousand questions and a deep, aching silence where your old life used to be.
We know this pain. Personally. Intimately. Profoundly.
And we also know what it takes to rise from it.
Survive and Thrive after Infidelity was created for people like you—betrayed, disoriented, and standing at the edge of the life you thought you were building. It’s not a pep talk. It’s not a quick fix. And it’s not a one-size-fits-all formula.
It’s a compassionate, honest, and deeply practical guide for reclaiming your life after infidelity—on your terms.
This Isn’t About “Saving the Marriage”
It’s About Saving You First.
Whether you stay or go is not a decision you need to make today.
Right now, the most urgent need is for you to find your footing again.
To stop spinning.
To quiet the obsessive thoughts.
To finally stop blaming yourself.
To say: “I didn’t ask for this—but I will decide what happens next.”
That’s what this program helps you do.
You May Be Wondering…
“But I’ve already read the books. I’ve Googled everything. I still feel lost.”
We get that. So did we.
When betrayal crashes into your life, there’s no neat roadmap. Most advice is generic.
Oversimplified. Or worse—focused on fixing your partner.
But this is different.
This program doesn’t ask you to perform.
It invites you to come undone—and begin again.
At your pace. In your way. With zero pressure.
“What if I can’t trust again?”
That’s not a flaw. That’s a wound.
Rebuilding trust—especially in yourself—isn’t about pretending you’re okay.
It’s about learning to feel safe again in your own body, your own choices, and your own life.
This work starts with you. And it doesn’t require your partner’s participation to begin.
What Healing Actually Looks Like...
Most people imagine healing as “forgiveness” or “moving on.”
But those are outcomes. Not steps.
Here’s what healing really means in this program:
- Feeling grounded in the chaos of the first 30 days
- Understanding your emotions—not suppressing them
- Letting go of shame that was never yours to carry
- Reclaiming your worth even if your spouse doesn’t see it
- Learning to trust yourself again after being blindsided
- Processing grief in a way that brings peace—not pressure
- Exploring intimacy with honesty, not fear
- Redefining who you are, with or without the relationship
We walk with you through all of it. Every messy, honest step.
Who This Isn’t For
If you're looking for a silver bullet...
If you expect someone else to fix it for you...
If you’re not ready to sit with hard truths and be gentle with yourself...
This isn’t your program. And that’s okay.
But if you're done spinning your wheels and ready to begin, even if you’re scared—this was made for you.
What’s Inside (and Why It Matters)
While the tools inside Survive and Thrive are powerful, it’s not the format that heals—it’s what the tools make possible:
- 500+ pages of real talk—no fluff, just grounded guidance
- Audio versions to meet you where you are (walking, crying, driving, hiding in the bathroom—we’ve been there)
- Reflective exercises and meditations to help you regulate, soothe, and rebuild
- Bonus trainings and interviews with therapists and couples who’ve rebuilt after infidelity
- Bonus: 1-Month access to the Affair Recovery Movement Member Area
Access our best recovery programs, tools, recorded coaching calls, and more — to support you through every stage of healing. Note: After the 30-days you'll be charged $30 per month for 12-months. You can cancel at any time
Everything is designed to support your emotional clarity, not just intellectual understanding.
What others are saying about the program...
Your new program is a powerful resource and I cannot understate the value of what you have brought to its pages. It has helped me tremendously and has given me better insight and perspective.
Allison
This program gives me strength and the realization that it’s ME that has the power. Once again, I feel more grounded. THANK YOU for being here. I honestly don’t know what I would have done without this.
Nicky
If You’re Waiting for a Sign…
It’s not going to come in neon lights.
But maybe this quiet pull in your chest is it.
Maybe you don’t need to have it all figured out.
Maybe you just need something solid to stand on while the world keeps spinning.
If this feels like a “yes” in your gut—or even a hopeful maybe—
that’s worth trusting.
Click below to take the next right step.
There’s no pressure, no push—just an open door.
And if you need a little more support?
You can always reach out for 1:1 mentoring with Doug or Linda—two people who’ve lived this, not just studied it.
"At first I was skeptical that this program would be any different than all the others that are out there these days. I'm happy to say that I was pleasantly surprised. The material made me consider things that I hadn't previously and I feel a sense of empowerment that I didn't have before."
- Joanne
"If you haven’t already purchased the Survive and Thrive program available on this site, I urge you to consider it. Linda and Doug’s books enabled me to finally move past the fallout from the affair."
- Pat
OUR 100% SATISFACTION GUARANTEE
We understand that it’s not easy sometimes to make an investment, even one as important as this one. So we thought we’d remove one from the equation by making our program risk-free.
You can try “Survive and Thrive after Infidelity - the Betrayed Spouse Collection” and if for any reason you are not satisfied with this program, just shoot us an email and we will refund every penny of your purchase. No time limits. No questions asked. Pretty simple!
A Final Word
You’re not broken.
You’re grieving.
You don’t need to be fixed.
You need to be met, seen, and reminded of your strength.
Healing after betrayal is sacred work.
Let’s begin it together—whenever you're ready.
Get Access Now to Survive and Thrive after Infidelity
Choose the option that's right for you.
Survive and Thrive after Infidelity
One-time investment: $100
What you’ll receive:
- Full access to the complete Survive and Thrive self-guided healing program
- Bonus: 30 days free inside the Affair Recovery Movement private member area
- Lifetime access
- Risk-free: If it’s not the right fit for you, we offer a no-questions-asked refund — anytime.
This is for you if you're ready to begin healing on your own terms, at your own pace.
Everything in the Core Program — plus personalized support when you need it most.
What’s included:
- Full access to Survive and Thrive after Infidelity
- A private 60-minute mentoring session with Linda or Doug for individualized insight and support
- Bonus: 30 days free in the Affair Recovery Movement membership area
- Lifetime access to the core program
- Risk-free guarantee on the core program — cancel anytime, no questions asked
This is for you if you're ready to begin healing with expert guidance and want space to talk through your unique experience.
Everything in the Core Program — plus ongoing, personalized support to walk beside you through the hardest parts.
What’s included:
- Full access to Survive and Thrive after Infidelity
- Four private 60-minute mentoring sessions with Linda or Doug — tailored to your specific situation
- Bonus: 30 days free inside the Affair Recovery Movement membership area
- Lifetime access to the core program
- Risk-free guarantee on the core program — full refund, no questions asked
This is for you if you're ready to go deeper, want consistent guidance, and don’t want to navigate this alone.
Healing Isn't Passive...
It’s a Choice—And It’s One You Get to Make.
Thriving after betrayal doesn’t happen overnight.
It’s not linear, and it’s not always graceful.
It’s grief, yes. It’s learning. It’s unlearning.
It’s forgiveness—not just of your partner, but of yourself.
But most of all, it’s a decision.
A quiet, powerful one:
“I refuse to let this be the end of me.”
We know this because we’ve lived it.
There was a time when we were certain our marriage wouldn’t survive.
But we made a different choice—and step by step, things began to shift.
Not because we’re special.
But because we showed up for the work—and gave each other the space to grow.
That’s why we created this program.
Not because we believe we have all the answers.
But because we know how disorienting it feels when you’re searching for hope and only finding noise.
We don’t want you to suffer unnecessarily.
And you don’t have to. Not one more day.
If our story can help shorten your path or soften your pain, then every hard-earned lesson was worth it.
We’d be honored to walk this part of the road with you.
And we hope one day you’ll share your own survive and thrive story—with someone else who needs it too.
To your healing,
Linda & Doug
This program inspired me to look within and grow from this horrible experience. I know it is worth the time and effort spent to better ourselves and our relationships.
Betsy
I have derived great benefit form this program and I am very grateful for your wisdom, which has helped save my marriage.
Matt