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When you first find out that your spouse has had an affair, you are blind-sided, bewildered, confused, and extremely sad.  The pain is unbearable. You feel like someone has ripped the rug from under your feet and you never even saw it coming.

Most of the time, your first instinct is to
try to understand what happened...

In fact…

You probably thought that affairs could happen to other couples but not to you.

After all, your spouse was not ‘the type’ to have an affair and you thought your marriage was going well…

...little did you know that during your spouse’s affair, while he or she was snuggling up to you, there was someone else.

You struggle comprehending the reasons for an affair, but the pain that you feel is even worse.

The pain that you feel is unbearable on your best days and unfathomable and unspeakable on your worst days. You grieve the loss of someone who is still alive; you do not see any way to find closure.

Then, you scour the internet and the library to try to understand the reasons for the affair and to try to get a break from the pain you feel.

You pour through books by famous psychologists, devouring every word—and yet you still come up empty for answers.

After reading 50 books, you feel no better off than when you started because it seems everyone is repeating the same generic message and never getting to the core of the matter.

So where do you turn?  What now?

We're sure we don’t have to sit here and remind you of the immense pain you’ve experienced as the result of your partner’s affair. But suffice to say, it probably is the most painful thing that you have ever had to live through.

We understand that.  We really do because we have lived through it too.

You see, many people who are struggling with recovery from an affair are floundering and have no clue what it takes, what they should or should not be doing, or how best to focus their energies.

That’s understandable and we have to say that we did not know how to either when we were going through this.

It’s hard work. It takes time. But you can survive the affair and have a wonderful marriage if you can manage to do the right things and avoid doing the wrong things.

While it’s true that many couples don’t make it after their marriage is rocked by infidelity, if you have the desire to save your marriage and are willing to give 100% effort, then who is to say that your marriage can’t just survive, but thrive as well.

We’re here to show you the right way so that your marriage doesn’t become some sort of statistic.

We’ve been in your shoes and are in a unique position to put all of our experiences – both good and bad, successes and failures – and use them to help lead you out of the pain and into a better place.

Introducing Survive and Thrive after Infidelity: The Betrayed Spouse Collection

Survive and Thrive after Infidelity is a unique and complete resource that will guide you through the recovery and healing process from D-day and provide you with the knowledge and tools to not only survive the affair, but thrive!

This offering is not your typical “e-book” or how-to guide written by someone with no practical real life experience recovering from infidelity.

It’s a program that is comprised of 8 different learning modules that address all the various aspects of affair recovery and healing and help you avoid the most common pitfalls and pain points that plague most individuals who find themselves in this position.

Here are what the modules are all about...

  • Crisis Management: Surviving the First 30-days after D-day

    Have an understanding of some of the most important rules and strategies for successfully navigating through the initial aftermath of the pain, chaos and confusion that infidelity creates.

  • Processing the Five Stages of Grief after Infidelity

    Learn about the five stages of the grieving process; how to effectively deal with each step in the process; and then how to complete the process with the end result being a newfound sense of emotional freedom.

  • The Journey to Healing: Surviving and Thriving Post D-day

    Be provided with the tools and insight for you to do the difficult work of healing from an affair in an effective and realistic manner. Healing comes when you work with these tools.

  • The Real Journey to Forgiveness: It's For You Not Your Spouse

    Understand the misconceptions about forgiveness that can serve as roadblocks to healing, learn the real scoop on forgiveness, and know how to get rid of lingering feelings in such a way that allows forgiveness to become a healing force in your lives.

  • Journey to Trust: Rebuilding Trust After an Affair

    Understand that trust is not just believing that your spouse will never stray again. It’s also about understanding the affect that mistrust has had on you and your relationship. It’s about learning to trust yourself and your ability to make sound decisions and allowing yourself to trust yourself and your spouse again.

  • Regaining Control: Dealing with Obsessive Thoughts, Triggers and Memories of the Affair

    Take a deep exploration into those destructive thoughts and images of your partner’s affair, what triggers them and learn some sound strategies for dealing with them so that they won’t have as much control over you.

  • Rebuilding Your Self-Esteem: Finding Wholeness Again After Your Partner's Affair

    Understand that the affair was never about you and that the affair does not alter the fact that you are and always will be inherently worthy.

  • Sexuality After the Affair: Restoring and Defining a New Kind of Intimacy

    Learn all aspects of sexuality and intimacy in terms of how it relates to reestablishing a mutual satisfying sex life post affair D-Day.

That’s just a sampling of what’s in store with this program.  There’s a lot more.  To get a better appreciation for what’s inside, let’s take a closer look at what this program is all about.

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What others are saying about the program...

Your new program is a powerful resource and I cannot understate the value of what you have brought to its pages. It has helped me tremendously and has given me better insight and perspective.


This program gives me strength and the realization that it’s ME that has the power. Once again, I feel more grounded. THANK YOU for being here. I honestly don’t know what I would have done without this.



When you purchase Survive and Thrive after Infidelity you're getting over 500 pages of material and about 10-hours of audio jammed with essential advice to help you overcome your most challenging struggles after infidelity, while guiding you towards a relationship that thrives.

You will receive the following:

8 Survive and Thrive Modules

The program includes 8 affair survival modules mentioned above: a comprehensive 100,000+ word roadmap sculpted to help you navigate the the destructive forces of infidelity starting with D-day. The modules begin with the early stages of discovering the affair and holds your hand through the various elements of healing, forgiveness, trust, self-esteem, and more. (PDF format)

The Audio Version

Enjoy the full 8 modules in audio form. Listen on your mp3 compatible device as you go about your day, in your car or on your computer. If you're the kind of person who learns best while listening to information, then the audio version is  perfect for you.

Supplemental Module Content

Each module comes with one or more additional pieces of content that enhances and compliments  your learning experience for the module.  This material consists of meditations, exercises, guides and audio files addressing essential elements of the process.  They include the following:

  • The Most Common Mistakes Made by Both the Cheater and the Betrayed After the Affair Discovery - a guide
  • Couples Exercises for Forgiveness and Rebuilding Trust
  • Meditations for Alleviating Emotional Pain, Dealing with Obsessive Thoughts and Difficult Emotions
  • The Little Book of Contentment:  A guide to becoming happy with life and who you are, while getting things done - by Leo Babauta
  • Audio recording on Intimacy After Infidelity with Linda, Doug and therapist, Jeff Murrah
  • Crisis Management Checklists
  • The 9 Steps to Forgiveness - Audio with Psychotherapist David Feder
  • Monthly Check-In Worksheets and Activities for Couples Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity
  • Reflective Journaling Prompts for the 5 Stages of Grief
  • Self-Esteem Progress Tracker
  • Guide to Managing Flashbacks and Intrusive Memories after Infidelity
  • A Guide to Setting and Communicating Sexual Boundaries Post-Affair
  • Survivors vs Those who are Affected Long Term - Audio recording with Psychotherapist David Feder
  • And much, much more.

The Betrayed Spouse Bonus Pack

This special bonus pack includes a ton of valuable stuff:

  • An extra module, Inside the Mind of the Unfaithful:  Understanding Why Cheaters Do What They Do.  Doug and ex-cheater, Tim answered the top 11 questions betrayed spouses have for the cheater
  • Audio Interview with Mona and Gary Shriver on how they rebuilt trust after Gary's affair
  • Winning Back Your Wayward Spouse by Tim Tedder, LMHC, NCC.  This guide is intended to help you determine the best course of action for encouraging your growth and your spouse's return.
  • Interview with author, Dave Carder, author of the books Torn Asunder and Close Calls a while back about many of the important elements required to restore trust in your relationship. Dave utilizes an interesting and firm approach with his clients that delivers great results.
  • How to Confront a Cheating Spouse - A hard-hitting guide written by a betrayed spouse who has experienced confronting his wife after he discovered her affair.  He shares his advice and guidelines for confronting the unfaithful spouse in a way that produces desired results.
  • Setting Healthy Boundaries Course - A comprehensive guide on establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries, particularly in the context of recovering from infidelity. It emphasizes the significance of understanding personal and relational boundaries as a means to foster authenticity, trust, and healing in relationships.

30-Day FREE Access to the Affair Recovery Movement Private Members Area

One free month membership to the Affair Recovery Movement. This is our premier membership area where our goal is to help guide members through the 5 Stages of Affair Recovery.

Here you will find all of our Master Programs, recorded Group Support Sessions, the Recovery Library with hundreds of audios, guides and videos, a forum, chat room and much more.

You'll get all of this as an added bonus for free for 30-days. After that you'll be charged $30 per month for 12-months. You will then be a Lifetime Member and no further payments will be required. We'll remind you before your first payment and you can cancel at any time.

**OPTIONAL** - Individual Mentoring Sessions with Linda or Doug

We are not therapists nor counselors, but we have personally been through what you are going through and have made the same mistakes along the way. We have learned a tremendous amount during our journey as well - real life practical knowledge that we can pass on.

We have rebuilt our marriage when at one point it seemed hopeless. So, we are indeed survivors.

Our experiences give us genuine compassion for your situation, your pain and your struggles. We understand recovery, healing and the difficult emotions you encounter after infidelity.

We can give you perspectives from both sides of the affair - the betrayed spouse and the unfaithful spouse.

That’s a whole lot of stuff!
Are you ready to begin your journey to surviving and thriving?

How ready are you?

"At first I was skeptical that this program would be any different than all the others that are out there these days.  I'm happy to say that I was pleasantly surprised.  The material made me consider things that I hadn't previously and I feel a sense of empowerment that I didn't have before."

- Joanne

"If you haven’t already purchased the Survive and Thrive program available on this site, I urge you to consider it. Linda and Doug’s books enabled me to finally move past the fallout from the affair."

- Pat

So Why Invest in This Program?

Think of this program as essential guidance for anyone betrayed by their partner. It's designed to help you grasp the real impact of the betrayal and discover what steps you can take immediately to significantly influence your own recovery and healing journey.

This Program Will Help the Betrayed Person To:

  • Learn how to navigate the chaos and confusion of the first 30 days after discovery with essential rules and strategies for surviving the initial aftermath.
  • Gain the tools and insights needed for effective, realistic healing from an affair, moving from survival to a thriving emotional state.
  • Discover the real meaning of forgiveness, overcoming misconceptions and using forgiveness as a powerful tool for your healing journey.
  • Learn not just to rebuild trust in your partner, but also to trust in yourself again, understanding the deep impact of mistrust and strategies to overcome it.
  • Deep dive into managing obsessive thoughts, triggers, and memories of the affair, reducing their control over you with practical strategies.
  • Understand your inherent worth unaffected by the affair, and explore the restoration and redefinition of intimacy and sexuality in your relationship post-affair.
  • Understand and process the five stages of grief following infidelity, with strategies for each stage leading to emotional freedom.
  • And much more!


We understand that it’s not easy sometimes to make an investment, even one as important as this one.  So we thought we’d remove one from the equation by making our program risk-free.

You can try “Survive and Thrive after Infidelity - the Betrayed Spouse Collection” and if for any reason you are not satisfied with this program, just shoot us an email and we will refund every penny of your purchase.  No time limits. No questions asked. Pretty simple!

Is This Program for You?

This program is designed for anyone struggling with the aftermath of infidelity, looking for a way to heal, grow, and possibly forgive.

It's for those who understand that healing is a journey, requiring patience, commitment, and the willingness to face difficult truths and emotions.

You're a good fit for this program if you’re ready to:

  • Face the pain of infidelity and start the healing process.
  • Build a stronger, more resilient sense of self.
  • Make informed decisions about your relationship’s future.
  • Commit to the journey of healing, regardless of its direction.

You're not a good fit for this program if you:

  • Are looking for a quick fix or immediate answers.
  • Are unwilling to explore deep emotional challenges.
  • Expect the program to make decisions for you without personal effort.

Ready to Start Your Journey from Surviving to Thriving?

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The Core Program Only

Get access to Survive and Thrive after Infidelity for the small investment of $100.

  Plus you'll receive access to The Affair Recovery Movement for FREE for 30-days. Hassle-free Lifetime money back guarantee.

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    The Core Program PLUS 1 - Optional Mentoring Session

    Add 1 one-hour mentoring session with Linda or Doug to the Core Program for an additional layer of support and guidance.

    Plus you'll receive access to The Affair Recovery Movement for FREE for 30-days. Hassle free Lifetime money back guarantee (Core program only).

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      Being able to thrive will take time, working through grief, forgiveness and rebuilding trust – and the rest of the process. Healing and thriving is an active process, it is a choice, and best of all, it is in your power.

      We are living examples of this. In the beginning we will admit at one time we were convinced that our marriage was over but we were able to turn things around through hard work, knowledge and sheer determination. We are passionate about empowering couples to restore their marriage because if we could do it, you can too.

      From our perspective, we created this program because we do not like seeing you suffer. In fact, suffering is needless and your suffering can stop today with the assistance of the tools we have provided in this program. Please learn from our experience since it makes the road much easier.

      We've put a lot of work into this program and we hope to hear your success story as you travel your own journey to recovery, healing and thriving.

      Best wishes!

      Linda & Doug

      This program inspired me to look within and grow from this horrible experience. I know it is worth the time and effort spent to better ourselves and our relationships.


      I have derived great benefit form this program and I am very grateful for your wisdom, which has helped save my marriage.