Change Within Before You Can Change Without
Change Within Before You Can Change Without: After an affair, you must use the pain to grow toward wholeness and to develop more love and empathy.
By Sarah P.
In my last blog
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Merry Christmas!
Photo by Forest Wander
My Christmas Wish To YOU
By Catherine Pulsifer
If I could wish a wish for you,
it would be for peace, faith, and happiness
Linda and Doug
You Have the Power – Staying Empowered Through the Holidays and Beyond
Note: Infidelity is a traumatizing event that often makes the betrayed feel powerless and unable to cope or take action. Often though, a victim mentality becomes the coping mechanism used
Sarah P.
Runaway Spouse: Cheating to Avoid Commitment
I have a theory that some people who have affairs have attachment disorders from childhood and are actually cheating to avoid commitment.
By Sarah P.
Do you know how to spot a
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Discussion – Why Didn’t You Get Divorced After the Affair?
Almost 87% of you are still married after discovery of the affair. And most of you made that decision fairly soon after D-day. Why is that?
In one of our reader surveys it
Linda and Doug
Stop Making Excuses for Infidelity: It’s Not in Your Biology; It’s a Decision
When I think of people making excuses for infidelity, I think of the mindset that usually sets the stage for later infidelity in marriage...
By Sarah P.
Living with integrity means: Not
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The Funeral
We received a call from Linda’s brother that his ex-wife passed away early in the morning on October 26. She died of complications from Cirrhosis of the liver. She had massive
Doug
Silent Infidelity: How Porn Addiction Affects Your Marriage
By Sarah P.
We all know that pornography has negative affects—but can pornography use be considered a form of infidelity?
In this blog post, I will address the social impacts that
Sarah P.
Our Hike in the Forest – A Metaphor for Our Affair Recovery Journey
How is a hike in the forest like our affair recovery journey?
Linda
Our Affair Recovery – Two Subtle Shifts That Made a Difference
We discovered a couple of things that allowed us to make 2 subtle shifts that helped us turn our affair recovery in a more positive direction.
By Doug
Recently I’ve been mentoring
Doug