The Least Productive Things to Do After an Affair

What do you feel is the least productive thing you did after discovering the affair? By Linda & Doug Hopefully, you will find these statements somewhat enlightening. Please add your own thoughts

by Linda and Doug

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You Must Stop Being the Victim

So now that we can agree that the betrayed spouse is a victim, I want to tell you that if you are the victim, at some point you must stop being the victim.

by Linda and Doug

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An Unfaithful Reader’s Emotional Affair Addiction

This person had feelings from the affair that she had to process. As it turns out, she had an emotional affair addiction problem.

by Doug

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You Know You’re Getting Old When…

We’re going to poke a little fun at ourselves today to lighten things up a bit. You know you're getting old when...

by Linda and Doug

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Why It’s Important to Ask the Tough Questions After an Affair

Be aware of your blind spot. If you ever took driver's ed classes, you were probably taught about the blind spot in a car. This is the field of vision you

by Susie and Otto Collins

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Forgiveness After Infidelity – Reframing the Story that We Tell Ourselves

An extremely important component of forgiveness after infidelity is effectively reframing the story that you tell yourself. This is also related to the concept of self-talk. By Linda Each time we witness

by Linda

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Save Your Marriage by Saving Yourself

This post addresses how it may be appropriate to work more on yourself in order to save your marriage.

by Linda and Doug

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Open ‘Mic’ Discussion #12

For the time being, we've decided to stop our regular weekly discussions that we've been running since 2010. However, we will still be posting the 'Open Mic' discussions each

by Linda and Doug

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Resources for Dealing with Abusive Relationships

Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the last couple of weeks (or live outside the US), by now you’re probably more than aware of the whole Ray Rice

by Doug

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Stirring Things Up – Finding Meaning in the Affair

Many marriages do wind up stronger after an affair because the couple responded to it by finding meaning in the affair.

by Linda and Doug

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