Talking About the Affair
Hey everybody. We are taking this week off for a family vacation. We will be white water rafting, kayaking, camping and whatever other outdoor pursuits strike our fancy. While we
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Discussion – It’s Success Story Time Again
In case you’re not aware, every so often we like to focus our weekly discussion on your affair recovery and healing successes. Well, it’s been four months since our last
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Out of Misery Comes Love
By Linda & Doug
Today we have another wonderful, thought provoking and inspirational letter from a long-time reader, Battleborn.
"I am a betrayed spouse (BS), not because I want to be but
Linda and Doug
Letting Go of Resentment
There are many hurdles to cross when trying to recover from an affair. One of the biggest and most difficult to overcome is the letting go of resentment.
What is resentment?
My
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Discussion – Can You Forgive Cheating?
So can you forgive cheating?
We’ve talked about the subject of forgiveness a bunch on this site. Based on most information that we’ve read and from reader comments, it seems that
Doug
Long Time Reader Remarrying After a Divorce
For any of you who have read our blog and the comments for any length of time, you are probably familiar with one of our long-time readers, “Rollercoasterrider” (RCR). The
Doug
Our Visit to a Marriage and Family Therapist
A month or so ago Linda went back to talk to a marriage and family therapist. It just so happened that it was the same guy we talked to way
Doug
Discussion – Accepting and Forgiving After Infidelity
Many people whom we’ve communicated with have found that the path to accepting their spouse’s infidelity has been easier than the path to forgiving after infidelity.
After being betrayed and hurt
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Choose Your Infidelity Support Group Wisely
After an affair our infidelity support group is often friends and family. Sometimes this turns out good but other times...not so good.
By Linda
When faced with infidelity we often turn to
Linda