Healing From an Affair – Changing From Destroyer to Rebuilder

This post is going to be geared towards the cheater and healing from an affair. Since most of our readers are the betrayed, you might want to print this off

by Doug

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Healing After an Affair – At a Crossroads

Yesterday I took the day off because Doug and I had doctor’s appointments. Since both of us are now 50 years old, we thought it was time for us each

by Linda

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Discussion – We Need Some Affair Recovery Success Stories

It’s been five months since we last asked you all to share your affair recovery success stories, and I believe it is well overdue for us to ask again. We

by Linda

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Dealing With the Shame and Embarrassment After Infidelity

It was a long, tiring holiday weekend for us which culminated in about one hour of sleep last night due to some very late night drama with one of our

by Doug

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It is a Time to be Thankful

Since today is Thanksgiving here in the US we are taking the day off to be with family and to stuff our faces. We still wanted to give you all

by Doug

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Discussion – How Do You Really Know if the Affair is Over?

The idea for this week's discussion unfortunately came from one of the persons that Linda has been mentoring for the last several months. It had appeared that this person and her

by Doug

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A Stressful Weekend

This last weekend turned out to be a bit stressful for a couple of different reasons. For starters, one of our computers, which contained the majority of our files, crashed

by Doug

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How to Regain Trust in a Marriage – The Trust Contract

There are a zillion articles out there on the Internet that try to sum up how to regain trust in a marriage after infidelity as if it were just a

by Doug

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Discussion – How Did You Catch Your Cheating Spouse?

One of the results of our survey that we conducted a week or so ago that stood out for me was that nearly 20% of the respondents were unsure as

by Doug

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The Driving Forces of an Affair

For the last several weeks I have been observing the comments on this blog made by the betrayed spouses as well as the cheating spouses. I have learned so much

by Linda

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