Saving Your Marriage by Learning From the Past and Agreeing on the Future

Despite the devastation that a marital affair causes, our experience from writing this blog tells us that most betrayed spouses have the desire to save their marriage--and for that matter,

by Linda and Doug

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Why Can’t I Remember Things After the Affair?

Is there a possible psychological explanation for why I can't remember things after the affair? By Doug Quite frequently I find myself having an increasingly difficult time remembering details after the

by Doug

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The Emotional Affair Wasn’t the Catalyst for Change

My wake-up, or should I say our wake-up call, came the night that we finally had an honest conversation about our relationship.

by Linda

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Stop Playing the Infidelity Game

Dr. Huizenga discusses how to deal with competing with your spouse's affair partner - or as he calls it “playing the infidelity game.”

by Linda

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Discussion: How Do You Compete With a Fantasy?

It's Wednesday, and once again I was sitting at my computer trying to come up with a topic for our weekly discussion. Fate would have it that I got

by Doug

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Is Facebook the Portal to an Emotional Affair?

It would seem to me that Facebook could be the lightening rod for infidelity, especially for an emotional affair.

by Doug

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Why Men Don’t Like to Talk About Their Feelings

A day doesn’t go by without someone asking us how they can get their spouse to talk about their emotional or physical affair, or open up about their feelings on

by Doug

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7 Ways to Get Your Spouse to End the Affair

If you want to motivate your spouse to end the affair, Dr. Huizenga says that these are your best strategies...

by Linda

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Don’t let the Ho-Ho-Ho’s Ruin Your Holiday

Your marriage is important. It dominates your thoughts and emotions. When your marriage is in good shape, the holidays are a wonderful time. When your marriage is less than wonderful, the

by Doug

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Discussion: How Do You Get Over the Past Pain?

Good Wednesday! I must admit that I had a tough time coming up with a topic for our discussion this week. Perhaps my brain is still mush from the extra long

by Doug

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