Last Friday around 3:00 I didn’t feel much like working anymore. I had a busy week and things were winding down so I decided to quit working and do a little research into the readership statistics of this blog. Yes, I know… very exciting stuff!
While doing so, it occurred to me that since we have written over 400 posts since we started this thing, many of these posts get buried simply because of their age.
Because of that, there are a lot of good posts with excellent helpful comments from the readers that are going unnoticed which many of you could benefit from. So as part of our weekly newsletter where we have been recapping the week’s posts (among other things), we started to include a post from the past as well. (If you haven’t signed up for our newsletter yet you can do so in the form in the upper right side of each page and grab a couple free e-books in the process)
Among other things that I feel are being missed are a variety of helpful downloads. These include a few MP3 interviews and a variety of PDF reports, guides and tests. I thought it might be helpful to pop them up here again for anyone who is interested to download. Just click the title of each to download. I hope these can help some people!
An Infidelity Success Story. “Jackie” was extremely close to leaving her marriage because of her husband’s affair with a co-worker. She was having troubles with many different issues that we all have faced as a result of the devastation of the affair.
In this success story, Jackie used the same principles we talk about when we on this site or when we mentor someone to successfully get her husband to end his affair and ultimately work on saving their marriage. (PDF format)
Controlling Your Thoughts After an Affair. An 11-page PDF report that Linda and I put together that gives you some strategies on how to get past obsessive thoughts after an affair.
Exercises For Forgiveness. Another PDF report that offers some helpful information on forgiveness after an affair including some nice exercises for you and/or your partner to work through.
Blueprint for Saving Your Marriage. A special report in PDF format with excerpts from Dr. Frank Gunzburg’s marriage-saving self-help program, “Saving Your Marriage.”
Don’t Let the Ho-Ho-Ho’s Ruin Your Holidays. Though this audio MP3 was from a webinar we did with marriage and family therapist Jeff Murrah around last Christmas, there’s lots of good information that will help you with your affair recovery.
5 Secrets to Regaining Control After an Affair. Another MP3 audio from a webinar that we did with our good friend Jeff Murrah.
Linda’s Interview on Confrontation. Several months ago Linda was involved in a webinar with Dr. Robert Huizenga, author of “Break Free From the Affair.” She was interviewed about her opinions on confronting the other person. In her case she chose not to confront and in the interview she explains why.
21-Step Spontaneous Healing Plan. This PDF report summarizes each phase and the 21 most important components of Dr. Gunzburg’s “How to Survive an Affair” program. This report has some good information that will give you an idea of what all is entailed for surviving an affair.
The Relationship Contract. This example of a contract (PDF format) where the idea of coming to an agreement with your spouse after the affair defining your relationship, writing it out, and signing it. Which is suggested by Dr. Gunzburg in his course “How to Survive an Affair.” This contract becomes a symbol of your renewed relationship and the practices that you intend to institute throughout your relationship.
The CHEAT Test. A PDF report and questionnaire from Jeff Murrah that helps to provide the motivation behind a man’s infidelity.
Should I Spy? A short ebook from Dr. Huizenga, author of “Break Free From the Affair,” that helps to answer why the betrayed spouse has the extreme desire to know the details about their partner’s affair, why the cheating spouse won’t tell the truth and whether or not spying on the cheater is right for you.
101 Romantic Ideas. Pretty self-explanatory title here. A 39-page PDF book by author Michael Webb with a variety of ideas for creating romance in your relationship.
Well there you have it. I think you will find a lot of helpful information within these downloads that will be beneficial for you whether you suspect an affair, have just discovered infidelity or are further down the road in your affair recovery.