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Infidelity Through the Tear Stained Eyes of The Betrayed

A powerful open letter from a betrayed spouse to the unfaithful.  This person expresses the pain of the betrayed and the requirements of the unfaithful. Click the link below to download and read the article.

Infidelity Recovery Programs and Services

The following affair recovery and marriage rebuilding programs and services were created from our own experience with infidelity and how we saved our marriage to help you find healing and recovery from a situation that feels hopeless.

There is hope.

Journey to Trust: Rebuilding Trust After an Affair

If infidelity has ravaged your marriage, then you are very aware that probably the hardest thing to rebuild is also the most important aspect of any relationship – Trust. Trust was washed away after Doug's emotional affair, but we managed to rebuild it after a rather lengthy process. This book will explain to you how to rebuild trust in yourself and your relationship in a practical manner based on our own experiences. We were able to rebuild trust and so can you!


Healing from an Affair - A cheater's guide for helping your spouse heal from your affair

Healing after infidelity is virtually impossible without the joint efforts of both partners - especially the cheater.

This book delves into the 24 'tasks' that the cheater must complete in order for him/her to transform him or herself from betrayer to healer.

The book is written from a man's perspective though it's appropriate for females as well.

A must read for both the unfaithful and victim of an affair!


The Higher Healing Membership

This is a premium members area for those interested in taking their healing after an affair to a higher level.

This site is full of hundreds of books, articles, audios and videos, along with a community forum and other great resources.

It's meant to be a safe, positive place where people can go to find support and increase their knowledge about affairs, relationships, healing and recovery.


The Affair Recovery Group

Pay what you want for the Affair Recovery Group! A 6-month long program delivered to your email consisting of audios, pdf's and exercises that will help you tremendously as you try to recover from infidelity. We teamed up with marriage and family therapist, Jeff Murrah, LPC, LCDC, LMFT, who has counseled hundreds of couples over the years who have felt the pain of infidelity in their marriages. Jeff's knowledge and expertise combined with our own experiences, makes this program very beneficial if you are lost and are ready and willing to learn how to recover from the affair, become your old self again AND learn ways to reclaim happiness once more.


Private Mentoring by Phone or Email

To talk to someone who has gone through what you're going through and who can listen and empathize with you is an incredibly powerful and valuable thing.

It's not just sympathy - it's empathy - and it's irreplaceable.

Miracles can happen and massive healing can take place. You can recover from this. We know. We did it.

Whether you are the victim or the unfaithful, perhaps you just need a friendly voice to talk to that has walked in your shoes and has experienced what you are going through.