Infidelity causes intense emotional pain--anger, disbelief, fear, guilt and shame. But an affair doesn't have to mean the end of your marriage.
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Happy Saturday! Once again we have a very good video with Dave Carder. This time he is interviewed based on his book “Close Calls-What Adulterers Want You to Know,” which discusses characteristics and reasons for why people have affairs. Did you ever wonder what causes an affair? This video and Carder’s book go over many [...]
This week’s video is a good one. It is with Dr. David Hawkins, the author of “Love Lost.” The discussion centers around recovering from a broken marriage. Dr. Hawkins himself suffered from a traumatic event when his wife of 28 years told him she didn’t love him anymore and asked him to leave. He offers [...]
This week we have a series of three videos with Michelle Weiner-Davis, author of a great book entitled “The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage”, about the practical tools for repairing a relationship with time, practice and patience. Discover how you can single-handedly hold your marriage together and create the relationship [...]
This week’s video is a very good one and well worth watching. It is rather long, about 30 minutes give or take, but hits on many of the issues that we have been discussing lately. The video is an interview from a show called Marriage Uncensored and is with Dave Carder, one of our favorite [...]
Well once again it’s video Saturday. Our open discussion this week was about reactions to finding out about affairs. Today we have a couple of videos from the TV show “Cheaters.” Most of you are probably familiar with this show, and while I admit the pretense of the show is a bit cheesy, and the [...]
Well, it’s video Saturday and we’ve found a good video from Lee H. Baucom, PhD. In the video he says that often when we’re faced with problems in our marriage we think of all the things that we have to do to save our marriage. But what about the things that we should NOT do? [...]
It’s Saturday and we have another good video for you today. Linda really likes the work of Michele Weiner-Davis. She especially enjoyed the book “The Divorce Remedy” (found in The Library). Weiner-Davis’ advice for those coping with infidelity is practical, reasonable and very much pro-marriage. In this video she answers a question from a person [...]
This video of a cheating spouse getting her beloved convertible filled with horse manure was forwarded to us the other day, and I must say that we had a nice chuckle watching it. However, one thing that we discussed after viewing it was the issue of taking revenge after discovering your spouse had an affair. [...]
Today we wanted to show you a nice video from Dr. Huizenga, the Infidelity Coach, and author of “Break Free From the Affair” about the 8 Stages of Recovery. In the video he goes through the 8 different emotions that one feels after being victimized by infidelity. One of the main points of the video [...]
Linda and I were online last night looking at some forums that we like to participate in, and saw several videos having marital affair themes. Now there is nobody who knows more than us how serious a subject this is, but this particular video absolutely made both of us laugh out loud. Sometimes, we all [...]
