Infidelity causes intense emotional pain--anger, disbelief, fear, guilt and shame. But an affair doesn't have to mean the end of your marriage.
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A Staind Emotional Affair Trigger
The other day I was cutting the grass and while doing so, was listening to a rock band called Staind on my I-Pod. I love music and I tend to gravitate to the classic, modern and alternative rock genres. In case you don’t know, Staind is a band that performs a mixture of hard rock [...]
Another High Profile Cheating Spouse
Well the Twitter “sexting” story of Rep. Anthony Weiner has been brewing for about a week or so, and yesterday he finally broke down and decided to tell the truth that he had indeed sent the inappropriate tweets to several women over a three year time span. In case you missed it last week, he [...]
Ashley Madison a Marriage Preservation Tool?
Over the weekend, we were lounging around watching the NFL playoff games, as we are big football fans. During one commercial break there was a spot that featured a man that was professing his distaste for Ashley Madison, which in case you were not aware, is a site much like Match.com or other dating sites, [...]
Video: Recognizing & Dealing With Emotional Infidelity
Well Saturday is finally here and we have a very good six-minute video for you today that features author Danine Manette. In the video she discusses emotional infidelity and it’s definition, effects and signs, as well as tips to repair your marriage after an emotional affair. Please check it out. For a six-minute video it [...]
Video: Meeting the Needs of Your Spouse
Good Saturday! This week we have a nice little video about how men and women have different needs and how they can be met. Not meeting each other’s needs is a major reason for affairs and the breaking up of marriages in general. Check out this video and you might learn a few things about [...]
Video: Tips for Resolving Conflicts
Here is a really good video featuring Dr. David Hawkins. He discusses a major topic that we all probably can do better at in our relationships: Resolving Conflicts. Though the video is not specific to surviving infidelity, the strategies can be applied to each of our situations. After all, an affair is a conflict, is [...]
Video: Regaining Trust After an Affair
Happy Saturday, and an early happy Mother’s Day to all you moms out there! The comments this past week have been jumping with respect to regaining trust after an affair. Our video this week is a brief one with Esther Perel, author of “Mating in Captivity,” where she discusses this subject rather well. Enjoy!
Video – Why Women Have Affairs
If you haven’t noticed by now, this Marriage Uncensored show has become one of our favorites as they always seem to have good guests with interesting and valuable things to discuss. This week their guest is discussing the reasons why women have affairs. Of course, men can certainly have affairs for many of the same [...]
Video: Building a Marital Affair Proof Marriage
We’ve established that marital affairs occur in most cases because one or both partner’s needs are not being met within a relationship. This week’s video is with Dr. Bill & Joyce Harley. Dr. Harley is the author of “His Needs Her Needs-Building an Affair Proof Marriage” and in this video he, his wife and co-hosts [...]
