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New Surviving an Affair Forum!

You may have noticed on Friday that we quietly stuck our new  Surviving an Affair forum page onto the site.  It wasn’t completely configured at that point, so we never mentioned it.  Now (we think and hope) it is up and working fine.  We are obviously not Forum technical experts, so there may be some […]

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Emotional Affair-What Was He Thinking?

It is amazing to me how one question about jealousy can provide so much insight. For a year and a half I have been thinking that Doug stumbled across the most perfect person in the world for him. I was under the impression that with his emotional affair he had found someone attractive, tiny, outgoing, […]

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Recovering From an Affair: A Roller Coaster Ride

Jealousy. It is amazing how that word gave me  an extra bounce in my step yesterday and today make me sink into a deep hole of depression. That’s what happens when you are recovering from an affair. Yesterday I was excited to know that Tanya was not perfect.  Today I am upset because I learned […]

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Save Your Marriage Help

This week we have a series of three videos with Michelle Weiner-Davis, author of a great book entitled “The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage”, about the practical tools for repairing a relationship with time, practice and patience. Discover how you can single-handedly hold your marriage together and create the relationship […]

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Infidelity Discovered? 10 Ways to Calm Your Powerful Feelings

Linda and I were in Memphis all weekend for a soccer tournament, and we didn’t get back until very late, so we had no time to write a new post for this morning.  So instead, we have another guest post from Dr. Bob Huizenga about how to manage the powerful feelings after discovering your partner’s […]

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Recovering After an Affair

This week’s video is a very good one and well worth watching.  It is rather long, about 30 minutes give or take, but hits on many of the issues that we have been discussing lately.  The video is an interview from a show called Marriage Uncensored and is with Dave Carder, one of our favorite […]

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Emotional Infidelity: Comparing Partner to Spouse

We recently wrote a post summarizing part of M.Gary Neuman’s book “Emotional Infidelity:  How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage and 10 Other Secrets to a Great Relationship” and his rules for avoiding emotional affairs. In the book Neuman described something I found very interesting and felt was very helpful for me to understand the dynamics of […]

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Trust After Infidelity

As luck would have it, We received an email a couple of days ago from Dr. Robert Huizenga that deals with the issue of trust.  We’ve mentioned before that Linda purchased Dr. Huizenga’s book “Break Free From the Affair” early after my emotional affair with Tanya came to light.  Ever since, she has been on […]

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Cheaters Caught on Video

Well once again it’s video Saturday. Our open discussion this week was about reactions to finding out about affairs. Today we have a couple of videos from the TV show “Cheaters.” Most of you are probably familiar with this show, and while I admit the pretense of the show is a bit cheesy, and the […]

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How to Survive an Affair: Review

As we have mentioned previously on this blog, Dr. Frank Gunzburg and his book “How to Survive an Affair” has proved to be a very valuable resource.  What we have enjoyed most about this book, is that it’s actually more than a book—it’s a system.  Systems are easier to follow and adhere to than most […]

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