Infidelity causes intense emotional pain--anger, disbelief, fear, guilt and shame. But an affair doesn't have to mean the end of your marriage.
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I came across the following piece the other day quite by accident, but I thought that it was excellent, and wanted to share it with you all. It’s called “The Awakening” by Virginia Marie Swift.
Virginia is a writer who has had a lot of experience with being wounded. She was sexually abused by her step-father [...]
Our open discussion yesterday centered around the topic of self-esteem. There were some very heart-felt responses in the comment section from both the cheating spouse and the victim of marital affairs. We also received many emails along the same lines. It became very apparent that not only do the victims take a massive blow to [...]
For many people, the idea of going to counseling can be uncomfortable and even intimidating. For some of us, going to counseling, whether it’s a therapist, psychologist, doctor, or other skilled professional makes us feel like failures because we couldn’t even manage our own lives. For others letting some stranger in to our personal junk [...]
I have read all of John Gray’s books in the past, and recently picked up his new one called, “Venus on Fire Mars on Ice.” It has a lot of the scientific data that I enjoy absorbing. I haven’t realized this about myself until after the affair, but I am somewhat of a geek. [...]
There are some of you who are further along in the recovery process than others. Surviving infidelity now has become more a process of strengthening yourself and your marriage instead of dealing with the immediate aftershocks of D-day.
Dr. Willard Harley, in his book “Surviving an Affair,” has four rules of marriage that can guide a [...]
Most of us who are married come to the point in our relationship where the excitement and satisfaction levels drop off considerably from earlier times in our marriage. It could because of the kids, work or some other aspect of everyday life. It is at these low-satisfaction levels that affairs can occur. I’ve been re-reading [...]
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