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Healing From Infidelity: How to Get Over the Hurt

Recently Linda and I had a morning that didn’t start off too well.  She was talking to me about an issue that was mentioned in the comments that upset her with respect to my emotional affair with Tanya.  It was early in the morning, and I made the mistake of not thinking before I answered […]

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Open Discussion: Healing From Infidelity

Happy Cinco de Mayo! This week our discussion is centered around healing. Here are some questions to consider: What have you done, or doing to help you with healing from your infidelity journey? What makes you feel better? Have you taken up any hobbies? Are you exercising? Any daily rituals? How do you get your […]

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Affair Recovery: Friends Can Help

One of our readers left a comment recently where he mentioned that during his affair recovery he has made an effort to reconnect with “real” male friends that are also friends of his marriage. Please note he was referring to friends of the same sex.  I thought that this was a really good idea.  One […]

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Healing From Infidelity: Don’t Keep It Inside

A recent comment from one of our readers brought back memories on how difficult it has been healing from infidelity and continuing to live day to day as if everything was fine while my whole world was falling apart around me. I would get so angry knowing that if the circumstances were different–for instance, if […]

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Emotional Affairs: Just a Game?

This is a warning, I am a betrayed spouse, and I have never taken the opportunity to engage in an affair so I am strictly speaking from speculation and not from experience.  I may offend some of you who have been involved with someone outside your marriage, but I am just voicing my opinion and […]

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Healing From Infidelity: I Am Proud of My Husband

One of our readers who comments frequently on this blog really opened my eyes this week.  I have been focusing on my own pain and healing from infidelity, yet I have been blind to how much Doug has grown in all this process.  I felt that I owe him some recognition because he does get […]

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Overcoming Emotional Infidelity Requires a Healing Identity

Steven Stosny, Ph.D  states that there are three clear points that are evident with people who have suffered  unimaginable emotional pain, such as emotional infidelity. The first is that human beings have an extraordinary capacity for healing all kinds of emotional wounds. The second truth is that the most important element in overcoming emotional pain […]

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Infidelity: 8 Stages of Recovery

Today we wanted to show you a nice video from Dr. Huizenga, the Infidelity Coach, and author of “Break Free From the Affair” about the 8 Stages of Recovery. In the video he goes through the 8 different emotions that one feels after being victimized by infidelity. One of the main points of the video […]

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Forgiving Infidelity

I recently was introduced to a book by Dave Carder called: “Torn Asunder: Recovering From an Extramarital Affair” and it brought to light some interesting points on recovering from infidelity for both the person who committed the infidelity and for the victim/spouse.  The book has a religious slant to it since Mr. Carder is a […]

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Don’t Lose Your Self Concept

A couple of years ago when Doug and I really started to experience problems in our marriage, not only did we become distant but we also began treating each other with disrespect.  I know that I was not too supportive or encouraging and neither was Doug.  Additionally, there were times when I would want to […]

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